How to Stop Playing the People Pleaser Role
When we give away our power to others, we cannot be our authentic self. We must practice self-love and respect. You must learn how to be your authentic self.
You won't heal until you watch the videos below, because you still need healing. You still have to do the homework. You're still putting others feelings over your own. You must stop that and learn from the videos. You are struggling with setting healthy boundaries and asserting yourself in a way that feels authentic. Carl Jung's concepts can offer valuable insights. I'd recommend exploring some key ideas and practical tips.
*Understanding the issue:*
- *Pleasers often prioritize others' needs over their own*: This can stem from a deep-seated desire for validation, fear of rejection, or a need to avoid conflict.
- *Courteous vs. over-pleasing*: Being courteous involves being respectful and kind, while over-pleasing involves sacrificing one's own needs and desires to an unhealthy extent.
*Carl Jung's concepts that might help:*
- *The Persona*: Jung's concept of the social mask we wear to adapt to societal expectations. You might be overly identifying with the persona of being a "pleaser" and need to develop a more authentic sense of self.
- *The Anima/Animus*: Jung's concept of the feminine/masculine aspects of the psyche. You might need to integrate your inner feminine/masculine aspects to develop a more balanced sense of self and assertiveness.
*Practical tips:*
- *Self-reflection*: Explore your values, needs, and desires. What are your priorities? What makes you feel fulfilled?
- *Boundary-setting*: Practice saying "no" in low-stakes situations to build your confidence and develop healthy boundaries.
- *Assertiveness training*: I recommend that you take a course or workshop on assertiveness to learn effective communication skills and build confidence in expressing your needs.
I recommend exploring the works of Carl Jung, particularly his writings on the Persona and the process of individuation. Some online resources, such as The Jung Society or YouTube channels like Jungian Analysts, can offer valuable insights and practical advice.
I encourage you to take small steps towards developing your assertiveness and self-awareness. With time and practice, you can develop a more balanced and authentic approach to relationships.
Meantime, here are two Carl Jung videos to help you start weeding through your concerns:
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You won't heal until you watch the videos below, because you still need healing. You still have to do the homework. You're still putting others feelings over your own. You must stop that and learn from the videos. You are struggling with setting healthy boundaries and asserting yourself in a way that feels authentic. Carl Jung's concepts can offer valuable insights. I'd recommend exploring some key ideas and practical tips.
*Understanding the issue:*
- *Pleasers often prioritize others' needs over their own*: This can stem from a deep-seated desire for validation, fear of rejection, or a need to avoid conflict.
- *Courteous vs. over-pleasing*: Being courteous involves being respectful and kind, while over-pleasing involves sacrificing one's own needs and desires to an unhealthy extent.
*Carl Jung's concepts that might help:*
- *The Persona*: Jung's concept of the social mask we wear to adapt to societal expectations. You might be overly identifying with the persona of being a "pleaser" and need to develop a more authentic sense of self.
- *The Anima/Animus*: Jung's concept of the feminine/masculine aspects of the psyche. You might need to integrate your inner feminine/masculine aspects to develop a more balanced sense of self and assertiveness.
*Practical tips:*
- *Self-reflection*: Explore your values, needs, and desires. What are your priorities? What makes you feel fulfilled?
- *Boundary-setting*: Practice saying "no" in low-stakes situations to build your confidence and develop healthy boundaries.
- *Assertiveness training*: I recommend that you take a course or workshop on assertiveness to learn effective communication skills and build confidence in expressing your needs.
I recommend exploring the works of Carl Jung, particularly his writings on the Persona and the process of individuation. Some online resources, such as The Jung Society or YouTube channels like Jungian Analysts, can offer valuable insights and practical advice.
I encourage you to take small steps towards developing your assertiveness and self-awareness. With time and practice, you can develop a more balanced and authentic approach to relationships.
Meantime, here are two Carl Jung videos to help you start weeding through your concerns:
[media=https://youtu.be/ETvE1_0o3po]
[media=https://youtu.be/A4-Fwu_-0ps]
