The person who requires your highest efforts, should do the same for you. Thoughts? [I'd Rather Get To Know You Than Small Talk]

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SW-User

People do what they do. You put the effort you're comfortable with, or don't. It becomes complicated when we expect in return.

Riemann · 31-35, M

@SW-User Life is give and take, too.

SW-User

@Riemann Yes of course it is. But if it doesn't come naturally for the other person, the 'should' only puts pressure on it. Only give what you're comfortable giving or give to someone who will return that energy.