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The person who requires your highest efforts, should do the same for you. Thoughts? [I'd Rather Get To Know You Than Small Talk]

KuroNeko · 41-45, F
shame there's not a lot of power in "should" lol
KuroNeko · 41-45, F
@Riemann I don't understand the question..
Riemann · 31-35, M
@KuroNeko You put your effort for someone and that person also needs to put effort for you. I asked what do you think?
KuroNeko · 41-45, F
@Riemann Yeah I understood the post, I just didn't know what you meant by "Like?"
SW-User
People do what they do. You put the effort you're comfortable with, or don't. It becomes complicated when we expect in return.
Riemann · 31-35, M
@SW-User Life is give and take, too.
SW-User
@Riemann Yes of course it is. But if it doesn't come naturally for the other person, the 'should' only puts pressure on it. Only give what you're comfortable giving or give to someone who will return that energy.
Keepitsimple · 51-55, F
If you do something for somebody you shouldn’t expect anything in return.
Keepitsimple · 51-55, F
I think you’re in for disappointment if you expect anything in return although it would be nice.@Riemann
Riemann · 31-35, M
@Keepitsimple How does that relationship function when one gives more than the other?
Keepitsimple · 51-55, F
It won’t last long@Riemann
Agree. I can be a bit much, but I am always willing to give the same amount of energy as I take, usually more ❤
Maybe they don't have the ability to do the same as what they require???
greenmountaingal · 70-79, F
If that person isn't returning your degree of effort, it's not a healthy relationship.
Reasonable ... never happens ... but reasonable
That's not been my experience
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