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I'm really bad at it now but at some point I was good at it...used to like baring out my soul to some one...then I closed up and don't feel safe ever sharing i don't know why.
Carissimi · 70-79, F
The world has changed, and it’s not wise to bear your soul these days, unless you have a trusted friend.
Carissimi · 70-79, F
I’m not saying it’s not possible to find a trusted friend online because I know some have found it, but only some. I’d say you can’t trust the majority online, so be very careful. You may find it more cathartic to write about what troubles you, and post it. You will get a mix of comments, but usually supportive ones too. Just ignore the trolls. This keeps you from becoming attached to any one person, and you’ll be exposed to more members to interact with. Just a suggestion. @userfawkes1105
@Carissimi thanks thats insightful just arrived so i might do just that i appreciate the advice on how things around here work dont want to be an outsider haha.
Carissimi · 70-79, F
Welcome! 😊@userfawkes1105
SW-User
Same ..I used to crave those soul baring connections but it only got me hurt so i closed myself up tight ...it's just not worth the pain
@SW-User im truly sorry mine was actually because i didnt want to but i hurt some one really bad...truth is their pain causes me pain still...i really felt terrible and i guess its why i close up now...dont want to hurt any one again..if it helps though i spend a lot of late nights looking at the moon hoping shes looking at it too hoping she feels how i hurt because i feel her hurt and feel crummy about it every day...i know she would never forgive me though...makes the pain more everlasting...
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@userfawkes1105 sorry to hear that
@SW-User yeah i try to look at life as an experience now and accept i have bad inside me. im learning to live with my regret. crossing my fingers that my true identity is not so faulty to match my past actions...and pray to someday be good enough to be worthy to live life.
Wtjvpovdwfhc345355 · 26-30, M
Hello would you like to chat? I'm pretty bored and like sharing experiences
SW-User
Bad experiences?
@SW-User yeah I used to have someone to confine in...they must have thought I was too extra. They ended up saying I was disgusting I guess to this day I hold onto that. So I do myself a favor and back off.
SW-User
@userfawkes1105 but you can't project one person to everyone. Every person is different and without giving new people a chance you lose out.

 
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