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I Will Check Your Profile Before I Add You

Why do a lot of people here, mostly men, not write anything about themselves in their profile? Why would I chat with or add someone as a friend when I don`t know anything about them, and I can`t if they don`t write anything about themselves.
I will not chat with, friend or add anyone who doesn`t have something interesting to say about themselves on their profile.

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BlueMetalChick · 26-30, F

I'm mostly just too lazy. I have no problem telling people about myself but I don't really think I'm that interesting anyway.

SW-User

@BlueMetalChick: You might be underrating yourself.

BlueMetalChick · 26-30, F

@Djce45: Probably. Everyone else seems to find me interesting as hell. But I think it's just cos I'm hot. People always find others more interesting when they're sexually attracted to them.

SW-User

well... that's a good thing... if you are hot, though of course you have to be careful, wary even.

BlueMetalChick · 26-30, F

@Djce45: Yeah, you're definitely right about that.

SW-User

don't worry about me... I'm an older man (50)... just passing the time on line... lol... not trying to meet or "see" anyone.

BlueMetalChick · 26-30, F

@Djce45: As a sex-repulsed verbally abusive lunatic, most people get a boner for me and then lose it within 30 seconds of talking to me. So I'm not too concerned.

SW-User

Oh... what would cause that?

BlueMetalChick · 26-30, F

@Djce45: Cause what?

SW-User

Their being repulsed within 30 seconds?...

BlueMetalChick · 26-30, F

@Djce45: Well when you try to flirt with someone but end up on the opposite end of long torrents of profanity and dysphemisms about how disgusting they find romantic attraction to be, it usually puts them off a bit.

SW-User

So you do that... or is it done to you?

BlueMetalChick · 26-30, F

@Djce45: I do that. It's never been done to me because I don't try to flirt with others.

SW-User

Ok... so why, if I may ask.
Of course... that said... ti's kind of silly to flirt or seek romance that way on SW... but oh well... they get what they get.

BlueMetalChick · 26-30, F

@Djce45: I'm talking about in real life too. I work in a nightclub so I get a lot of people, usually drunk or at least buzzed, trying to hit on me. I'm just a naturally unaffectionate and very aggressive person.

SW-User

I understand. Of course.. a nightclub turns into a meat market... not a romantic venue.
Why are you aggressive?

BlueMetalChick · 26-30, F

@Djce45: I'm the pianist, so thankfully I'm usually behind an instrument and can avoid contact with idiots.

I'm aggressive because I was raised to fight everything and everyone.

SW-User

Ah... well.. good for you. So you're a fighter?...

BlueMetalChick · 26-30, F

@Djce45: To the very fucking bone.

SW-User

Lol. Were you always that way... growing up?

BlueMetalChick · 26-30, F

@Djce45: Alllllways. I grew up in crippling poverty, homelessness, and famine. Pretty much every other living thing I came into contact with was something for me to fight. Except my sister. She was my one and only. She still is.

SW-User

@BlueMetalChick: Good for you with such a great sister and being close. I'm close to my brother... more now than before.

ronisme1 · 61-69, M

@BlueMetalChick this is a interesting read

BlueMetalChick · 26-30, F

@ronisme1 Was that a pun? 😏

ronisme1 · 61-69, M

@BlueMetalChick well sort of