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how often you participate in a gossip?

hope ths sw will not malfunction lol
or else so sad I'll be
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SW-User
You won't be able to gossip if SW malfunctions.. 🤭 Pretty much everyday at work now, but it is its own special place, as the place is closing and those working together suddenly see.... we only have a small-time together to truly appreciate this together.

Gossip can be good and bad, I veer away; the rumour mill almost always false, but I'm learning a new appreciation.
drair · 100+, F
@SW-User o yes we can learn a new fact from gossips too

It's just how it affects us when we participate in

Positive or negative

Not too much
Also no need to isolate ourselves from th crowd too

I was never a gossiper outside just these days
I'm trying to improve my company ^^
SW-User
@drair I hope you are improving your company.

I have kinda accepted the rumour mill exists, and it does, I try in my way to make it as heard, appreciated, and I even hear the negatives, of course I hear them with what's going on. I feel I'm fortunate, many I work with are close to retirement, they've learned the tact to dealing with people, and it's their fortune the place is closing. Without the rumour mill, I would have not learned as much.....

I'm not one for gossip. But as long as I stay objective, with knowledge people are who they are, I'm letting some in as I trust myself to not only read between lines, hear their stories, but also to let myself become attached to those I'm with daily.

It's how they know you listen. But I have felt that moment, if you say this about this person, what do you say about me?

I just try to engage conversation now, and if things come to where I question, I'm keen on giving my view that somewhere I love people and rest within there?
drair · 100+, F
@SW-User I'm sorry
I also feel I'm unfortunate
But I try to see other good sides

I really feel you give your best in a conversation

You've my sincere respct 🙇‍♀️
SW-User
@drair I respect this and it can be so very trying, I really feel also we find our best when listening to people.... I think thats what you mean. I feel unfortunate, too, and it takes all of me to put that part aside, just to really listen..

Always remember, though, they may not be giving you their best, so you don't need to be your best either. Life is give and take.
drair · 100+, F
@SW-User yes
Also they say you should listen and learn
We can learn from people's experience
But sometimes it's not necessary
Really not worth of our time
You can't always just give tht much energy in vain
So I understand
As you said it's okay to not give best
Just formal
This world lives off formal things
No disrespect towards anyone just neutral 🙇‍♀️