If someone stops making an effort with you

@SW-User Agreed ..been there done that ..it wreaks havoc on my heart and my mind and it's simply not worth it

@danser In my experience it was the behavior

@danser no... They just were very changing people... On and off... I think just wanted to keep me around for their ego mostly.

@SW-User same

@danser it's like a game for them, they could say they love but they don't. It's just ego

@SW-User * is an observer in her own thread 🙄*

@SW-User narcissists do that. As soon as they think they have you they stop trying.

@cherokeepatti and then they see they're losing you they try again, so off and on.

@SW-User yep it’s their cycle of abuse. They only put forth as much effort as necessary and not enough to keep the relationship maintained.

@cherokeepatti and they don't care, they only care about themselves and their needs. Have you been in that situation?

@SW-User my ex-husband. I couldn’t ever get him figured out. I believe he is a narcissist. I also believe they are under the influence of demons.

@SW-User I feel like I know these types

@SW-User they can be really charming to get what they want..

@cherokeepatti demons?

@SW-User Yes demons. A narcissist is so destructive that I believe they have allowed demons to control them. Have you ever read M. Scott Peck’s books? People of the Lie…and Glimpses of the Devil are two good ones.

@cherokeepatti nope, they sound interesting to read though, thank you

@SW-User there are different types of narcissists. The worst ones are malignant narcissists, very destructive people. My father was one. I believe he had all the qualities of the entire Dark Triad, a very malevolent type.