If someone stops making an effort with you Just be done Don't chase Move on

SW-User

Yeah I don't waste my time.
The problem is when they are hot and cold, it's better when things end and that's it. But when they're confusing is hard..

GunFinger · F

True. There's plenty of fish in the sea.

Adogslife · 61-69, M

Well, don’t devalue yourself to meet their indeterminate needs. Just be who you absolutely want to be: he either follows or he doesn’t.

Mediocrity should never be a life goal. Everyone has flaws, but you should be able to laugh lovingly about those flaws, not have them cause you duress.

Elevatorpitches · F

Gabor Mate would say people act like this when they have already been defeated in life and they think failing in love is a just punishment for already having suffered too much.

They will only find the "right" person when they can start healing their own wounds to begin with.

Gangstress · 41-45, F

Yeh but I miss her

Keepitsimple · 51-55, F

This. Don’t waste your time.

DRDEATH

what if anything does rejecting someone have to do with accepting them your heading is a contradiction so how long ago did you realize you were fickle? im hoping this is not your first acknowlegement that would place me in a very awkward position so speaking of awkward positions you care to publicly announce yours? NO IM KIDDING i would not dare come at you this early with crap like that unless ...well thats another line im not crossing just yet so all in all whatup? it said write a comment it didnt say it had to be a award winning comment yes i trying to see your point in living color...ok your turn

smiler2012 · 56-60

{@handsmaidssnail ] exactly right if there is no more room for manoeuvre you are right call it a lost cause . if you keep trying all you end up doing is making your self look a fool and desperate