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I have always felt i was too skinny my whole life. I wanted to gain wait a few years ago and now its happening without me even trying. Im 5,3 at 121lbs. I was starting to feel better about the way i look since i dont feel i look too skinny. Then my sister says to me " you're getting fat".
This is the first time someone has EVER called me fat. Made me feel bad. i usually get " ew, shes so skinny, she looks sick, anorexic". Just goes to show, people are gonna talk about you no matter what. First i was TOO skinny and now im fat?...

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Cutiepie1092 · 31-35, F

You just have to be happy with how you look. No matter what you do someone is going to comment on your apperance. I usually like to think cause they are either jelouse or have nothing better to do. But as long as your happy and healthy it doesn't matter what they have to say.

AllAboutLaffs · 80-89, M

@Cutiepie1092: This ... ☝

iamnikki · 31-35, F

@Cutiepie1092: thanks

Cutiepie1092 · 31-35, F

@iamnikki: you're welcome. My weight has always been up and down and I use to worry so much about what people thought. People who didn't even matter in my life. Once I realized their opinion wasn't important to me. I started being a lot happier.

iamnikki · 31-35, F

@Cutiepie1092: I'm slowly getting to that point. It hurts more when its a family member criticizing you. Youre supposed to feel safe with and around family

Cutiepie1092 · 31-35, F

I agree. Family should never say things like that. I've had a few family members like that. But my mom always stood up for me. I hope you have someone like that.
@iamnikki

iamnikki · 31-35, F

@Cutiepie1092: i dont. I need to start letting people know when they are rude. Like last month,my aunt asked me with a frown: " what SIZE do you wear"? I replied: "4". Then she tells me "no you dont" with a frown. Im gonna start asking them the same questions and see their reaction.

Cutiepie1092 · 31-35, F

@iamnikki: yeah that is so rude. And you should. If they can dish it out then they should take it. And who cares what size you wear, was she going to give you clothes, cause of not she has no business of even asking.

iamnikki · 31-35, F

@Cutiepie1092: thank u

Cutiepie1092 · 31-35, F

You're welcome