I Want All Truth And Nothing But The Truth
Relationships.
Humans are not naturally monogamous and we can tell by the fact we fantasize and get attracted to multiple people at the same time we form emotional bonds with.
Monogamy was invented to control:
1. Stds.
2. Unwanted pregnancy.
3. Raising the future generation in a “stable” environment to nurture and build pleasing, productive, and harmless individuals for the next generation.
Oxytocin, Dopamine, and Serotonin are the “feel good” chemicals released in our brain that are responsible for what we call “love”. Attraction could come about through being physically attracted or attracted through intellectual, ability, or how the person makes you feel when you are around them (emotional).
There is no “it factor” men are attracted to. There is no way to monitor what arouses man or woman because it is completely subjective and random, going by what media suggests is nothing but upholding a subjective standard for monetary gain.
We can’t handle our “loved” one to break monogamy vows because we are:
1. Insecure.
2. Jealous.
3. Possessive.
4. Concerned with resources or the convenience it entails to have your specific partner by your side.
If we were secure, confident in our unique beauty, and caring...
Wouldn’t we be more concerned about HOW a person treats someone than what they do with their privates, and their bodies?
I’d love to read your thoughts!
Thank you.
Humans are not naturally monogamous and we can tell by the fact we fantasize and get attracted to multiple people at the same time we form emotional bonds with.
Monogamy was invented to control:
1. Stds.
2. Unwanted pregnancy.
3. Raising the future generation in a “stable” environment to nurture and build pleasing, productive, and harmless individuals for the next generation.
Oxytocin, Dopamine, and Serotonin are the “feel good” chemicals released in our brain that are responsible for what we call “love”. Attraction could come about through being physically attracted or attracted through intellectual, ability, or how the person makes you feel when you are around them (emotional).
There is no “it factor” men are attracted to. There is no way to monitor what arouses man or woman because it is completely subjective and random, going by what media suggests is nothing but upholding a subjective standard for monetary gain.
We can’t handle our “loved” one to break monogamy vows because we are:
1. Insecure.
2. Jealous.
3. Possessive.
4. Concerned with resources or the convenience it entails to have your specific partner by your side.
If we were secure, confident in our unique beauty, and caring...
Wouldn’t we be more concerned about HOW a person treats someone than what they do with their privates, and their bodies?
I’d love to read your thoughts!
Thank you.
31-35, F
