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I Have Never Had A Menage A Trois

My girlfriend told me yesterday that she's crushing on a fellow teacher from another class at the preschool she works at, who she's pretty sure likes girls as well. This is significant since my girlfriend rarely ever crushes on other women. 馃槷 She said she's been crushing on her from a distance for a while but yesterday while she was working late, that lady was kinda engaging in subtle flirting with her (not while working around the kids, of course.) Perhaps the feeling is mutual! 馃槼 She said this lady looks a bit older like in her 30's, has a nice curvy figure and is Latina too! I told my girlfriend she should try doing some subtle flirting with her sometime and maybe once her and I get married, we can have our first m茅nage 脿 trois with her. 馃槒
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I only had a few threesomes experiences with Toni. It鈥檚 not for me. Made me feel dirty.
@DarkHeaven I鈥檓 just a one on one kind of girl. 馃槉
Carver31-35, F
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@Carver He was a close friend of hers. Pretty attractive, pleasant, polite, and respectful. It wasn鈥檛 him. It鈥檚 just that I can鈥檛 separate sex and love. I鈥檝e never been able to, so I鈥檓 just really careful who I鈥檓 intimate with.
@Carver Once we got more serious (relationship wise,) I told her that I just couldn鈥檛 do it anymore.
Carver31-35, F
@DarkHeaven I understand. It's not for everyone.
@Carver I loved her and wanted to give myself to her but it just felt like he was in the way. Just not for me.
sarabee199526-30, F
@DarkHeaven This is so interesting to me because the concept has interested me for a very long time. I even wrote a "fantasy" or sorts about one years ago on here. But more recently (a year ago) I was actively dating two people at once and, honestly, it made me feel dirty (so, yes, I understand those feelings). Now you're making me wonder if a threesome would make me feel the same way?? Idk.
@sarabee1995 I鈥檝e come to realize over the years that I鈥檓 a very emotional, loyal, faithful, and monogamous lover. I鈥檓 also a lot to handle sexually. My lovers typically haven鈥檛 needed more. The thought had always intrigued me younger as well but the reality factored in my emotions and feelings that were much different than the fantasy of it. I may flirt like crazy but in RL I鈥檓 very cautious who I date let alone am physically intimate with because sex is a real big deal emotionally to me. 馃枻
sarabee199526-30, F
@DarkHeaven I think we are alike in that regard ... and that's partly why flirt a LOT less these days. I just don't want to give out the wrong impression to people.
@sarabee1995 I still do... but only with three few I鈥檓 comfortable with. People can really get a crazy wrong idea here and that scares me a little.
@sarabee1995 I鈥檓 just awfully lonely in RL, and this allows me to be sexual without really doing anything.
sarabee199526-30, F
@DarkHeaven "Crazy wrong idea" ... yup ... it's happened to me a few times which is why I stay chill here. I used to flirt a lot back on EP -- just for fun -- but people took it way too serious and feelings were hurt, so no more.

I'm sorry about the loneliness in rl. I don't really think about it a lot. I have been very happy when I've been in a relationship, but I'm also very busy right now with life and my most recent relationship kinda interfered with that. So I'm keeping myself single for now. I know that if I slowed down a bit, I would absolutely be feeling lonely too. We are meant to share our lives. I hope you find someone. {hugs}
@sarabee1995 Even though we are different in many ways and obviously the details of our lives are unique. You and me, sweetheart, are so very much alike, especially in the way we think and feel about stuff. I鈥檓 glad that I鈥檝e gotten to know you. 馃枻馃馃槝
sarabee199526-30, F
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@DarkHeaven Not with me! 馃槆
@MsAnnThropy A real physical threesome with my offline, real life girlfriend might be much better if the third person was also a girl but I鈥檓 not sure that I鈥檇 risk my relationship on it, being honest. You are quite special, though. 馃枻馃