How many kids do you have / want?

@tallpowerhouseblonde Is your partner on the same page as you? I wouldn't mind adding more to the family, but my partner hasn't made up his mind yet ;(

@kimmy159 Yes,my partner and I have good communication and I said when we first started dating I wanted to have at least 4 children,that has remained the same.My boyfriend wants more children too and is proving himself a great father.We have twin boys now that are just over a year old.

@tallpowerhouseblonde Good communication is worth a lot :D
The "problem" is that my partner and I started dating when we were 16, kids weren't yet on our list of topics to discuss back then haha :D
Was/Is it challenging to start off with twins?
My boy is 14 months old now ^^

@kimmy159 Twins is a challenge still.I gave birth naturally,now that was exhausting.Then breastfeeding 2 hungry babies, getting woke up.Lucky my employer has a generous maternity scheme.
Wow 16 is young for a long term partner.True love for sure.I was 22 when I met my boyfriend.

@tallpowerhouseblonde How long were you in labor for? :0 It sounds very exhausting ;p
Mine was (induced?) sorry my English dictionary doesn't have the right word for it yet XD They gave me pills to wake up contractions but apparently I was very resilient to their effect (although they did give me contractions). On top of that I couldn't walk around because they had to monitor the baby's reaction to the meds all the time so I just had to lay there. They broke my water manually the next day and then it still took about 5 hours before it really started happening. The baby was a stargazer, so he got stuck and they had to press my belly and use that plumbing thing to get him out 👀 44 hours later... finally held him in my arms 🤩