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Dainbramadge · 56-60, M
I have three perfect wonderful children but I really, really, really wanted six.
kimmy159 · F
@Dainbramadge Really :0 Do you come from a big family yourself? ^^
Dainbramadge · 56-60, M
@kimmy159 No. There are three of us.
I think my reasoning is that I came from a crappy upbringing and I always knew I could be a better parent than I had.
Just the feeling of all those little perfect people running around with their perfect and innocent actions and thoughts.
I think my reasoning is that I came from a crappy upbringing and I always knew I could be a better parent than I had.
Just the feeling of all those little perfect people running around with their perfect and innocent actions and thoughts.
kimmy159 · F
@Dainbramadge That actually witheld me from starting to try for kids for quite some time. I was too scared to fuck it up (that and the situation wasn't stable enough before). Now that I have one, I can't imagine wanting 6 of those hahah ;p Or maybe that's because we had a crybaby the first 6 months.
Dainbramadge · 56-60, M
@kimmy159 I love everything about my kids.
I found, with all three, they only cry for three reasons.
Hungry.
Diaper is full.
Wants attention.
Oh and some times gas.
My sister was colicky and my parents didn't know what to do. But they went on to have two more.
I almost waited to long before everything was right to have them.
I found, with all three, they only cry for three reasons.
Hungry.
Diaper is full.
Wants attention.
Oh and some times gas.
My sister was colicky and my parents didn't know what to do. But they went on to have two more.
I almost waited to long before everything was right to have them.
kimmy159 · F
@Dainbramadge My husband is the "let's wait a little bit longer" type too. And then months turn into years before you know it lol. Our son has reflux, the kind where he only slept 4 hours (counted together) a day and where he cried the rest of it because he was so uncomfortable. We're pretty sure the next kid would have it too. My hubby works abroad so he's only home part time pretty much to help out. Aside from that, we want to be able to save up money for our kid(s) too and put all them through college if they so want to. We find it a tough decision whether we can do all of that for 2. (I would say maybe even 3 but he'll definitely not want that lol).