I Hate Slow Replies

@serenitree Uhm I don't think so. I don't think every impatient person is insecure as well and that rule applies to every single case.


But in my case yeah, I'm insecure and impatient. But they are not related.

Okay, I misspoke. Not insecure. Immature might be a better word. You learn with time, that sometimes someone will send you a message, and then, immediately be called away to do something else. This has nothing to do with not being interested, but with having more than one thing in their lives. I believe texting has caused more hard feelings between people who say they love each other, than at any time previously.

This of course is my own personal opinion and could be full of nothing but air, but it's what I have observed so it's based on something more than just empty thoughts.

But, now that I have admitted the poor choice of word, it is still a valid observation. Anyone who responds very quickly in case she might be interested, then gets upset, because the person was slow to reply, must feel some insecurity. As in,
"Oh, I'd better answer quickly so he/she won't find someone more interesting than me."
" Oh, no! He/she, isn't replying instantly. Is that because someone else answered with a more interesting answer than me.?"

@Serenitree So when I'm stuck in traffic annoyed, I'm insecure? Okay :|

Impatience is a sign of insecurity.

Mr.Magic. Again, insecure may be the wrong word, but really, how much faster do you get where you're going by being impatient?

@serenitree Uhm, yeah... I'm immature too... So I guess I'm immature in this case as well. Reasonable thoughts, nice opinion. thank you :)