I Am Sexually Confused

My whole life I know that I've been sexually attracted to other women. Women are what I am dominantly attracted to. But i'm a bit confused because rarely I can find a guy attractive. It doesn't happen often but it still does happen. I've never dated a guy so I can't say if I would ever date one. I don't think im bisexual because like I said me being attracted to men is so rare. Just a tad bit confused.

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firefall · 61-69, M

Think of attraction as a spectrum. Some people are at 0% gay or 0% straight. Some are at 50/50, so true bisexuals. But a lot of people are at 90/10 or 80/20 - they're mostly just tuned into one gender, but there are a few (or more than a few) of the other gender that also appeal.

Most people, for social reasons, try to suppress the 10% or 20% straight or gay, to keep their lives simpler usually. But it doesnt mean it's not there in the back of their minds.

Bodybag · 22-25, M

Bottom line humans are disgusting creatures

DanniRoxi · 26-30, F

Well that escalated quickly

firefall · 61-69, M

@Bodybag: wtf?

Bodybag · 22-25, M

@firefall: yall nasty

firefall · 61-69, M

@Bodybag: because? do you actually have thoughts, or is it straight from the lizard brain to the keyboard?

DanniRoxi · 26-30, F

@firefall: You are my favorite person ever

firefall · 61-69, M

@DanniRoxi: aw shucks, thanks :)