I Care About Personality Not Looks

I do believe your MAIN personality is developed by age 8 or so... they’ve done studies on it .. and I think MOST of ones personality develops from how your parents treated you. It’s your only world as a kid and I’ve seen time and again people who had loving parents are often confident, but SOME self centered when they did NOWRONG in their parents eyes... and those that had neglectful parents or abusive often are shy personalities or quiet..(in some cases they take though the abusive parents trait and are loud/aggressive.) That’s not EVERY case but some general observations I’ve read in books and seen.

I think we can always choose to work on ourselves, and over time, make some changes in our personality.

Well.... you need the physical attraction I the first place and then you know everything else kicks in