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I Hate My Ex Husband

Having to share your children with someone you hate is so infuriating. All I want is to cut him out of our lives. I'll never be able to do that and he's going to be a part of my life until I die. That's terrifying. If he was at least a good dad I would find it so much easier 😤
robertsnj · 56-60, M
if it is ok to ask how do you reconcile the dichotomy of loving and marrying him at one point and loathing him and wanted him completely out of your life now?
resealableheart · 41-45, F
@robertsnj There is no reconciling it. I’ll always wonder what went wrong for him. I thought he was the one and he was a great guy, great dad and step-dad for years.

Now I hate him & for good reason. It’s fucking insane that that is the same person.
Paliglass · 41-45, F
He's as good a dad as he can manage. That's how I look at this type of issue. Him being a good or bad dad is his responsibility not yours. My ex was rubbish and now he's much better so it could improve.

As much as you're stuck with him in life's goings on you can be free of him in your mind. Once that happens you may view him differently, you may not, but you can let him go from your mind even though you are in life's happenings technically stuck with him. I don't see I'm stuck with my ex at all, my children are unless they ever choose otherwise but I'm not. He's their dad not mine. Also my dad deals with my ex, I have nothing to do with him anymore which makes it easier so if you could find someone to deal with your ex that could help you feel better.

Much luck, love and blessings.
Paliglass · 41-45, F
@imLobo lol They are very beautiful flowers.
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Paliglass · 41-45, F
@imLobo thank you
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Pop0159 · 61-69, M
Try to focus on the advantages .. like what you can do when he has the kids so you can focus more time on them when they are with you .. ..
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Beachlover · M
Hope things sort themselves out and you can move on with your life

 
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