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I Know What Heartbreak Is

He is walking around with his girlfriend .
Proud to be seen with her.
He says he finally found his one true love .
I'm trying to be ok with it
But I'm not ok
Not at all馃槥
PfuzylogicM
I hope you take this as encouragement but understand you dodged continual gunfire.
You were more than good enough and he didn鈥檛 recognize the diamond when he had someone precious. Rather, she needs a warning of what is yet to come. 馃槥
Niloo46-50, F
@Pfuzylogic
Life is not supposed to be fair
It just happens ..
I'll be ok someday 鈽猴笍
PfuzylogicM
@Niloo
He doesn鈥檛 represent life.
Your heart does and your heart will heal.
Remember you are so worth it.
SW-User
@Niloo What P said is correct. A blessing is always around the corner somewhere, this could be the opening of an even better door. A new and truer love will find you.馃檹馃挐
CoppercoilM
Yeah.. I contacted an ex just to check up on her and see how she was and she said something like great never been better I found my soul mate.. no offense but what we had was nothing compared to this. Well I thought what we had was beautiful but whatever.. I guess she wins whatever competition I wasn't having with her.
Niloo46-50, F
@Coppercoil
Sounds like you are still hurting ..
I'm sorry馃
Juts remember what it was that brought you to the breaking point...
Hope you find your person soon !
DrWatson70-79, M
@Coppercoil Those kinds of competitions are really important to some people!馃槖
Niloo46-50, F
@DrWatson
Maybe they don't have anything better to do馃槒
Ambroseguy8051-55, M
Feel sorry for HER! Don鈥檛 feed into any of his shit. Which is what he鈥檚 trying to give you...
Niloo46-50, F
@Ambroseguy80
Thank you
I鈥檓 working on it 馃槉
Ambroseguy8051-55, M
@Niloo I鈥檓 sure it鈥檚 a process 馃
Niloo46-50, F
Beatbox3431-35, M
I am so sorry to hear that.
I dealt with a breakup in 2018 and that messed me up. Some people are cold and I think its better they're off our lives. We deserve the people to love us in return and in due time we'll find the right people in our lives馃.
Niloo46-50, F
@Beatbox34
Sorry to hear that馃
I know that if it's not the right match, the sooner you break it the less the heartache .
So,
I guess you and I are better off being away from them.
Beatbox3431-35, M
@Niloo I believe that too. I was thrown away after 4 years for petty reasons because she had gotten back with her ex.

It left me devastated, lost and broken. Even to this day no amount of words could describe the pain. I felt everything was done for me. I so wish it had ended sooner but we can just wish.

In time the pain will disappear. In time it will get better. We will get the right people who deserve us.
PeachesF
God removed him from your life to prepare you for someone [i]better.馃馃挀[/i]
PeachesF
@Niloo YES, sadly many people think they need someone to define them.馃様
DrWatson70-79, M
@Niloo And I think, paradoxically, that the people who learn to be happy on their own sometimes make the best partners!
Niloo46-50, F
@Peaches @DrWatson
Well,
I would definitely not be complaining if I happen to find a good one 馃槈
SW-User
He found his match and you will also. Give it time and get him off of your mind. Blank him out, throw away his photos. Make plans now what you will do for your future when this panademic is over. Start eating right, exercising and doing positive things. I have been there and will never let a man dictate my happiness again! Think about this!
Niloo46-50, F
@SW-User
Thank you for your wise advice
I'm trying 鈽猴笍
DrWatson70-79, M
It's ok not to be ok with it.
Niloo46-50, F
@DrWatson
馃様
I have to say
I'm getting used to it now.
Building up a thicker skin I guess ...
DrWatson70-79, M
@Niloo Heartbreak is rather perplexing. On the one hand, it is so universal. On the other hand, when we experience it, it feels so terribly unique to us. We know others have been able to move on, and yet it feels as if we never will. I think it is very much like mourning a death. I'm sorry you have to deal with this.
Niloo46-50, F
@DrWatson
Exactly.
It's a risk worth taking when we bond with someone. know I'll be ok one day.
Just like everyone else ..
Degbeme70-79, M
He`s still an idiot. 馃槨
Degbeme70-79, M
@Niloo 馃 馃 馃
MagentaF
@Degbeme She's wonderful! And genuine. 鈽猴笍

@Niloo Mmhm. The new will wear off and when she shows to be just as human as us all, the idealization bubble will burst.
馃
Niloo46-50, F
@Magenta
Thank you for your support my beautiful friend !
You are too kind.馃
MagentaF
Aw I know this feeling. 馃様馃
Time will reveal his true nature and pattern of behavior, with her..
Niloo46-50, F
@Magenta
Sorry to hear that you know the feeling馃槥馃
I do wish them both happiness .Maybe they are each other's true love!
Never the less
It hurts like hell !!鈽猴笍
MagentaF
@Niloo I'm so sorry for your pain. But this is honest and unpretentious feelings and I admire that, dear N. Time will help assuage. 馃馃尯
SW-User
I'm sorry, sweetums. I can't imagine how difficult and deeply sad that would feel.馃槩馃馃挒
Niloo46-50, F
@SW-User
I'll be ok someday 馃
I just have to stay away from them and survive till the pain goes away .
SW-User
@Niloo You [i]will[/i] be more than ok! No matter how true that latter part is, I hope your heart heals soon, although an ache will remain. I made a friend nearly 15 years ago through a tragedy for us both. Our bond made even phone calls and texts difficult. Not remotely close to your hurt, but enough to grasp the enormity of your pain.鉂わ笍馃
Niloo46-50, F
@SW-User
Sorry to hear that馃
I'm sure it was not easy going through it .
BeefySenpieM
The worst part is it takes time to recover, but you'll get there!
Niloo46-50, F
@BeefySenpie
True
I'm trying to focus on recovering ...
Thank you for responding.
BalmyNitesF
[youtube=https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yX4ez_h_lrk]

[quote]Love hurts, love scars[/quote] 鈾ワ笍
Niloo46-50, F
@BalmyNites
It does !
But I think it's worth it
At least, tonight I do 馃槒
BalmyNitesF
@Niloo 馃
Niloo46-50, F
@BalmyNites 馃
Brooksy41-45, M
Hey Niloo 馃挋 Sorry about your heartbreak. I wish there were words to take away the sting 馃挃 I hope you start feeling better soon. You've always been refreshing, when you were around on her. I miss that
Niloo46-50, F
@Brooksy
Hi B!馃馃馃鈽曪笍
I'm doing better
Slowly moving forward ...
Oh I'm till a goof ! No worries there 馃槣
How are you ?
Brooksy41-45, M
@Niloo 馃挒馃 thank goodness! SW has been running out of sunny people

I'm super good. Busy in pretty much every possible way. But loving life. Making the best of it
Niloo46-50, F
@Brooksy
Good for you my dear friend 馃
PoetryNEmotion61-69, F
You and he were not meant to be. Those words may be of poor solace, but you know they are correct. There is another man for you out there. Take that thought and hold it close, Niloo. And tell me when he finds you.
Niloo46-50, F
@PoetryNEmotion
Thank you
Yes I know we were not meant for eachother .
I'm not really looking for someone else but if he finds me , you'd be the first to know .
(( Hugs))
PoetryNEmotion61-69, F
@Niloo I just wanted to say those words to you. Not "if". When he finds you. Pay attention. Work on you meanwhile. Thank you for your hugs. Huggggggggggggggggggsssssssssssssss back. :)
Sorry for you pain , hoping that in the long run you can find the happiness you deserve in life , and that you and yours are at least safe for now , best wishes
Niloo46-50, F
@warnbrobeachlover1
Thank you 馃
SW-User
Never mind him. He's not worthy of your concern. You are a person of worth, and he's the one who threw the relationship away.
Niloo46-50, F
@SW-User
That's right!
I'm a total gem !
His loss 馃槍
MontanamanM
馃様馃様馃馃馃グ馃尮
Niloo46-50, F
@Montanaman 馃
Buildingadoor26-30, F
I know there isn't anything I can really say. But I can give you a hug.
馃尯馃槥 *hugs*
Niloo46-50, F
@Buildingadoor
Thank you
* hugs*
Maybe you didn't put out enough 馃し鈥嶁檧锔
Niloo46-50, F
@CherryNow
Haha!
Something was deffinitly missing 馃樁
PfuzylogicM
@CherryNow
Naughty girl! 馃え
SW-User
@CherryNow Girl馃う鈥嶁檧锔
[c=#800055]There's no such thing as "One true Love"...[/c]

Niloo46-50, F
@valobasa4ever
I know that..
I guess I'm just baffled that a man who was so cold and cruel to me can be such poppy dog and so in love ..
So different ...
It makes me feel that something was wrong with me ..
Oh well 馃槒
@Niloo [c=#800055]Yes i knew that feeling .. when i was in junior high ... That .." something is wrong within me".[/c] 馃崄
JustNik46-50, F
Oh Niloo. 馃馃挒
Niloo46-50, F
@JustNik
I know !
I'm going down a spiral 馃槄
JustNik46-50, F
@Niloo well it鈥檚 hard. People can be different with different people and sometimes it just looks that way, but it doesn鈥檛 stop the hurt. Just remember that no matter what time will out, whatever he was with you was not a reflection on you. It was just all he could be in that time and place. I hope the healing comes soon for you. 鉂わ笍鉂わ笍鉂わ笍
Niloo46-50, F
@JustNik

I believe that it takes 2 to tango
I'm sure part of it was me
Maybe if I learn from this, I can avoid more heart breaks
Thank you for bring so sweet.
SW-User
Niloo46-50, F
@SW-User
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SW-User
@Niloo 馃
NewKidInTown51-55, M
Niloo46-50, F
@NewKidInTown
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samueltyler280-89, M
My daughter's ex was more hateful, more explicit.
Stereoguy56-60, M
That is perfectly understandable. Pain is pain. 馃槩
Niloo46-50, F
@Stereoguy
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