He is walking around with his girlfriend . Proud to be seen with her. He says he finally found his one true love . I'm trying to be ok with it But I'm not ok Not at all😞
I hope you take this as encouragement but understand you dodged continual gunfire. You were more than good enough and he didn’t recognize the diamond when he had someone precious. Rather, she needs a warning of what is yet to come. 😞
@Niloo He doesn’t represent life. Your heart does and your heart will heal. Remember you are so worth it.
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@Niloo What P said is correct. A blessing is always around the corner somewhere, this could be the opening of an even better door. A new and truer love will find you.🙏💝
Yeah.. I contacted an ex just to check up on her and see how she was and she said something like great never been better I found my soul mate.. no offense but what we had was nothing compared to this. Well I thought what we had was beautiful but whatever.. I guess she wins whatever competition I wasn't having with her.
@Coppercoil Sounds like you are still hurting .. I'm sorry🤗 Juts remember what it was that brought you to the breaking point... Hope you find your person soon !
I am so sorry to hear that. I dealt with a breakup in 2018 and that messed me up. Some people are cold and I think its better they're off our lives. We deserve the people to love us in return and in due time we'll find the right people in our lives🤗.
@Beatbox34 Sorry to hear that🤗 I know that if it's not the right match, the sooner you break it the less the heartache . So, I guess you and I are better off being away from them.
@Niloo I believe that too. I was thrown away after 4 years for petty reasons because she had gotten back with her ex.
It left me devastated, lost and broken. Even to this day no amount of words could describe the pain. I felt everything was done for me. I so wish it had ended sooner but we can just wish.
In time the pain will disappear. In time it will get better. We will get the right people who deserve us.
@Niloo Heartbreak is rather perplexing. On the one hand, it is so universal. On the other hand, when we experience it, it feels so terribly unique to us. We know others have been able to move on, and yet it feels as if we never will. I think it is very much like mourning a death. I'm sorry you have to deal with this.
@DrWatson Exactly. It's a risk worth taking when we bond with someone. know I'll be ok one day. Just like everyone else ..
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He found his match and you will also. Give it time and get him off of your mind. Blank him out, throw away his photos. Make plans now what you will do for your future when this panademic is over. Start eating right, exercising and doing positive things. I have been there and will never let a man dictate my happiness again! Think about this!
@SW-User I'll be ok someday 🤗 I just have to stay away from them and survive till the pain goes away .
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@Niloo You will be more than ok! No matter how true that latter part is, I hope your heart heals soon, although an ache will remain. I made a friend nearly 15 years ago through a tragedy for us both. Our bond made even phone calls and texts difficult. Not remotely close to your hurt, but enough to grasp the enormity of your pain.❤️🤗
@Magenta Sorry to hear that you know the feeling😞🤗 I do wish them both happiness .Maybe they are each other's true love! Never the less It hurts like hell !!☺️
Hey Niloo 💙 Sorry about your heartbreak. I wish there were words to take away the sting 💔 I hope you start feeling better soon. You've always been refreshing, when you were around on her. I miss that
You and he were not meant to be. Those words may be of poor solace, but you know they are correct. There is another man for you out there. Take that thought and hold it close, Niloo. And tell me when he finds you.
@PoetryNEmotion Thank you Yes I know we were not meant for eachother . I'm not really looking for someone else but if he finds me , you'd be the first to know . (( Hugs))
@Niloo I just wanted to say those words to you. Not "if". When he finds you. Pay attention. Work on you meanwhile. Thank you for your hugs. Huggggggggggggggggggsssssssssssssss back. :)
Sorry for you pain , hoping that in the long run you can find the happiness you deserve in life , and that you and yours are at least safe for now , best wishes
@valobasa4ever I know that.. I guess I'm just baffled that a man who was so cold and cruel to me can be such poppy dog and so in love .. So different ... It makes me feel that something was wrong with me .. Oh well 😏
@Niloo well it’s hard. People can be different with different people and sometimes it just looks that way, but it doesn’t stop the hurt. Just remember that no matter what time will out, whatever he was with you was not a reflection on you. It was just all he could be in that time and place. I hope the healing comes soon for you. ❤️❤️❤️