I Take Relationships Seriously
When you point out the mistakes and problems about someone, it shows that someone who you really are... You aren't worth their time or their patience. You may think you're helping the relationship, but you're only damaging it when you're pulling things from the past, things that that person can't undo. Let me ask you, would you like it if someone did that to you? I don't think so, now yes, the person may have done something that you didn't like, but they don't have to earn anything from you, you are no higher than they are, it's up to you whether you want to give that trust or leave.
There is a 90% and a 10%, the 90% is what you fall in love with at the start, and then later down the track you hit the 10%, and you start seeing the flaws and imperfections, and you wonder, where was the person from before. But that's where you need to think hard, and you need to be less self centered and realize that no one is ever going to be perfect, not even you.
Some women may think it's funny when they bring things from the past to annihilate their partners for things they have done. But we need to be more serious, because that method, that we all find quite funny, is very very damaging. I sure as hell would't want someone doing it to me, so where would I have the right to do it to someone else?
There is a 90% and a 10%, the 90% is what you fall in love with at the start, and then later down the track you hit the 10%, and you start seeing the flaws and imperfections, and you wonder, where was the person from before. But that's where you need to think hard, and you need to be less self centered and realize that no one is ever going to be perfect, not even you.
Some women may think it's funny when they bring things from the past to annihilate their partners for things they have done. But we need to be more serious, because that method, that we all find quite funny, is very very damaging. I sure as hell would't want someone doing it to me, so where would I have the right to do it to someone else?
26-30, F
