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Carazaa · F
@silentwriter180 Writing about it can help and definitely go to an EMDR therapist in your area, specializing in trauma. You probably wont believe it is possible to be happy again. But now you are sharing about him and we are all getting to know him through you. And he will live in memory forever. He wont go away. His spirit lives on. Please tell me something about who he was?
silentwriter180 · 51-55, F
@Carazaa He was a wonderful young man, but any mother would say that about her son. He loved nature; hiking & surfing were his favorite activities. He was very thoughtful of others, volunteering at the Veterans Center. He loved to sketch & paint.
After he died, I got together with his partner and learned a few things about him that I never even knew. When he'd go grocery shopping, when he'd see an elderly taking his/her groceries out to the car, he'd run up and insist on doing it for them, leaving his own cart outside the door. He'd be the type of person who would see a houseless person, and buy them fruit, crackers, any kind of non-perishables. Just the little things that I didn't know.
I could go on for an hour or so, but my customers wouldn't be too happy if I wasn't doing my job. lol
I can say is that I am proud of him and what he's become.
After he died, I got together with his partner and learned a few things about him that I never even knew. When he'd go grocery shopping, when he'd see an elderly taking his/her groceries out to the car, he'd run up and insist on doing it for them, leaving his own cart outside the door. He'd be the type of person who would see a houseless person, and buy them fruit, crackers, any kind of non-perishables. Just the little things that I didn't know.
I could go on for an hour or so, but my customers wouldn't be too happy if I wasn't doing my job. lol
I can say is that I am proud of him and what he's become.