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I Am Married

So today was mine and hubbies 14th wedding anniversary and yet I havant seen him all day as his been working not that I am too bother as we stopped getting each other cards years ago and don’t really celebrate unless we have a bit of spare money and he randomly takes me for a meal, sometimes I do wish he had put more of an effort years ago doing the whole yearly gifts you give each other every year but he didn’t and when he decided he wanted to I didn’t because I thought why should I?

I have brought him gifts and didn’t revive anything and brought him cards and not even wrote them out to be honest I even forgot it was our wedding anniversary today lol we always forgot I guess what’s what happened when it’s been such a long time 🤷‍♀️
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Pah 14 years... nothing ;-)

My wife and I celebrated 34 years at the weekend. Went out for the day - including a shopping spree to buy some chrome cleaner and they say the romance dies! 😂

We did go for a meal as well.
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@nedkelly congratulations
nedkelly · 61-69, M
@SW-User Same to you, and many more to come
Wow!! Congratulations to you too 🥳@nedkelly
whateverhappens · 26-30, F
Y'all gotta bring the spice back , not too late surprised him gather up some house hold stuff of quick run to the store ,some cake ,anything ... surprise him , he wouldnt expect it :)
I live in the middle of no where and have no car lol pretty hard really and I got to a point where I just can’t be arsed because I am tired of always trying to make an effort @whateverhappens
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Congrats 🥂. Hope you have many many many more ☺️
Oh and I know the kinda meal your hoping for 😉. Of course you forgot ,your mind is elsewhere always 🤭
Me either lol 😂 @SW-User
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Haha . 👍️ First time for everything though right 😉@LittleTinks
Hehe 😉 @SW-User
Livingwell · 61-69, M
Having been there it’s not too late. It’s not the big efforts but the little ones that count. Hopefully you both can have a chat and try to rekindle that fire. It is well worth it.
Very true 😏@Livingwell
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Thank you 🤗 @Livingwell
luctoretemergo · 61-69, M
Real life tends to diminish “the flame”
And I’m sure you’ll get a lot of advice you don’t need....but ultimately do you love him? Does he love you? Do you have a nice life? Two outta three?
I think I care for him and we do have a good life together and kids and his a good man.. I could do a lot worse right? @luctoretemergo
luctoretemergo · 61-69, M
Absolutely
Especially with kids!
If he’s a good man, give him a hug and a kiss tonight and don’t tell him why.
And if things go south you can always post a boob picture on here and find a gazillion admirers 😊
(Hope that made you laugh)
Lol yes it did 🙂😂@luctoretemergo
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I care for him deeply his turned into a good man and his a good dad :) love yes not in love..@fallenite
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🤔 hmm @fallenite
samueltyler2 · 80-89, M
My suggestion, tell him what you feel! I am married almost 51 years.
samueltyler2 · 80-89, M
@LittleTinks it took, still takes, lots of work.
Relationships do don’t they!! I guess I feel committed now lol! @samueltyler2
samueltyler2 · 80-89, M
@LittleTinks you just have to work hard for it.
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Congrats 🌷

Hmmm maybe plan a little trip away ?
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😎👍@LittleTinks
Well needed 😉 @SW-User
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😁🥳🖤@LittleTinks
Pfuzylogic · M
You were hurt and had to shield your heart.
Happy Anniversary! 🥂
Thank you! 🥂 @Pfuzylogic
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AllAboutLaffs · 70-79, M
@LittleTinks I am so sorry ....
💜 thank you! @AllAboutLaffs
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Oh we don’t even do that lol 😂.. his never been the one to Celebrate anything to be honest we don’t even celebrate Valentine’s Day havant for years.. but thank you ☺️ @Stereoguy

 
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