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I Say It'S Time To Go

Another failed friendship.

Its time i accepted its clearly me at fault.....not anyone else.
Its time to give up. Realise nothing can be forced, giving or receiving. Im just no good at being a friend.
Thanks to every one who tried to be my friend. Thanks to those of you who accepted mine....even if it was briefly.

Im sorry for any hurt and drama i caused.....

Those of you who have my email....please feel free to say hi at anytime.

Take care everyone.
With love..... Ruby. X

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Zonuss · 41-45, M

Dont leave. Just be yourself. But learn to appreciate the effort and time that others put into you. Because believe me, we are here for you. 🤗

RubySoo · 56-60, F

@Zonuss im always myself.
People are not here for me as i need them to be.....just how they want to be. Thats the issue. My problem-im aware. But people telling me what i should do doesnt help me. It makes my anxiety worse.
I dont need telling. Im aware....ringing changes is hard. And nobody can help that...only me.

Zonuss · 41-45, M

@RubySoo As you need them to be ? Why do you have all of these expectations from people. Let alone demands. Ruby, you cannot legislate how others should feel about you. And vice versa. But if you are abrasive, abusive, and overwhelming without realizing it then you will only isolate yourself and people will walk away. I am the only person here on this site who is not afraid to tell you the truth as it is. 🙂

RubySoo · 56-60, F

@Zonussno. Lots of people tell me....but actually....you only know me from my direct answeres to you where you are telling me whats wrong with me. I dont need telling....i know!!!
I just need people to leace me me and give me time....and hopefully be there when im feeling better. Not lecture me.
Ive asked you this many times before Zonuss. Please dont lecture me ....it makes me anxious. So please dont.

I know and realise exactly who and what i am.

Zonuss · 41-45, M

@RubySoo Ok. Its on you. Again, not a lecture. 🙂

RubySoo · 56-60, F

@Zonuss i accept its on me. Thats what the post says??
With respect...you dont know me. Youve seen my posts about me being upset but you dont know anything about me other tham those posts because we have never talked...other than you commenting on posts where im clearly upset over something. Your only opinions of me are based on that. I accept that. Thats what you judge me on....but you dont know the full stories or any more about me as a person.

Zonuss · 41-45, M

@RubySoo I stand by my statement. Take it personal if you will. Enjoy your day. 🙂

RubySoo · 56-60, F

@Zonuss i dont know what you mean? If its a statement about me...then it is personal.