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I Say It'S Time To Go

Another failed friendship.

Its time i accepted its clearly me at fault.....not anyone else.
Its time to give up. Realise nothing can be forced, giving or receiving. Im just no good at being a friend.
Thanks to every one who tried to be my friend. Thanks to those of you who accepted mine....even if it was briefly.

Im sorry for any hurt and drama i caused.....

Those of you who have my email....please feel free to say hi at anytime.

Take care everyone.
With love..... Ruby. X
missbeez · 26-30, F
I dont know you Ruby but if its online friends they come and go.in real life they still come and go.all people change some for the good and some the bad.do not blame yourself for all failed friendships.we all cannot please everyone.and its not always your fault.i myself have lost many friends some on purpose some for making a bad decision some cause of them but dont obsess on this big hugs to you Rudy i hope you find peace with yourself
Can I have back the $20 you owe me before you go
SW User
[c=#7700B2] This website is a very mixed bag. I think sometimes people dont want to get too serious or maybe they jsut want to sporadically message you. I dont think you are at fault specifically. It sounds like these friends promise to be around but maybe do you get too attached? is that it? <3[/c]
RubySoo · 51-55, F
[@1028490,SapphireHeart] probably....but we are talking long standing friends here...people who loved my openest, honesty, empathy, compassion and returned it. They loved me for it.....but eventually...they just dont need it any more...and they are gone.....
Dusty101 · 46-50, F
I felt the same when I fell out with a really good friend here.
It still hurts as I miss her.
But the trust was gone.
I hope you will come back
RubySoo · 51-55, F
[@572340,Dusty101] i dont know yet flower.
I just need to stop hurting.
You know me....be honest....im just too much for most normal balanced people. People need a break from me!! Lol
Dusty101 · 46-50, F
[@329653,RubySoo] 🤗
TheGoodGuy · 36-40, M
Don't go. These things happen. Ride out the wave 🙂
TheGoodGuy · 36-40, M
[@329653,RubySoo] You can 🙂
Maybe just don't get too close to people here. Stick to the forum and not so much in dm's 🙂
RubySoo · 51-55, F
[@551840,TheGoodGuy] its too late for that....i need time to regroup. X
TheGoodGuy · 36-40, M
[@329653,RubySoo] okay. I hope it goes well 🙂
Maybe lower your expectations... especially form people on SW😅
RubySoo · 51-55, F
[@1134,Haniazed] but its too late for that now. The damage is done and my friend is hurting more than i. I just need time out.
[@329653,RubySoo] Time out from SW Will do you good. It does me every time😊
Diesel95 · 36-40, MVIP
Don't give up sweet I your beautiful person with am infectiousnm personality and your a joy to speak too
Zonuss · 41-45, M
Dont leave. Just be yourself. But learn to appreciate the effort and time that others put into you. Because believe me, we are here for you. 🤗
RubySoo · 51-55, F
[@322117,Zonuss] i accept its on me. Thats what the post says??
With respect...you dont know me. Youve seen my posts about me being upset but you dont know anything about me other tham those posts because we have never talked...other than you commenting on posts where im clearly upset over something. Your only opinions of me are based on that. I accept that. Thats what you judge me on....but you dont know the full stories or any more about me as a person.
Zonuss · 41-45, M
[@329653,RubySoo] I stand by my statement. Take it personal if you will. Enjoy your day. 🙂
RubySoo · 51-55, F
[@322117,Zonuss] i dont know what you mean? If its a statement about me...then it is personal.
Classified · M
Take care 🤗🤗
RubySoo · 51-55, F
[@444927,Classified] thanks hun. Youve always been kind to me xx
Classified · M
[@329653,RubySoo] 🤗🤗
SW User
It's hard to find friends that you're completely compatible with. I hope you won't give up looking though cause there might be that perfect friend where you both can benefit from each other and be yourselves. 🤗 Hope you're doing a little better now at least.
RubySoo · 51-55, F
[@438734,KittenPaws] thank you.
Im not activly looking to make close connections. I never really was....but found a couple i thought were solid and turned out not to be.
So sadly right now close friendships are not something im going to seek.
Platinum · M
Friendships fail, don't let them get to you, plenty of great people on here who will make good friends...
Ambroseguy80 · 51-55, M
Failed friendships take two, last I checked. 🤗
RubySoo · 51-55, F
[@403045,Ambroseguy80] i cant help myself....so people give up. I cant blame them.
Take care xx
Ambroseguy80 · 51-55, M
[@329653,RubySoo] Take Care yourself xxx
RubySoo · 51-55, F
[@403045,Ambroseguy80] thank you sweeetie x
UglySpudicus · 51-55, M
This place blows.. you'll be fine x
RubySoo · 51-55, F
[@919282,MassageXchange] im gutted people cant or are unwilly to talk through differences ...they'd rather just end the friendship. Its shit.
Its really shit.
UglySpudicus · 51-55, M
[@329653,RubySoo] i think without trying to be brutal. Its life.. move on
likesnatural · 70-79, M
That's too bad. You are a nice person
RubySoo · 51-55, F
[@867820,likesnatural] thank you.
Nice isnt enough.
SW User
I don’t have it 🤷‍♂️

 
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