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I Have a Controlling Boyfriend

Wow, so now I’m not even allowed to watch the show I like. Lol
I was watching bad girls club and he came and turned the tv off and walked back out of the room. It’s ridiculous because I only watch it when he’s working, I know he doesn’t like it so I’m respectful about turning it off when he enters the room.
But now he won’t even allow it in his house. Lol what a control freak!
SW-User
Sadly this kind of behaviour is common and if your in a relationship with someone controlling, it usually just gets worse the longer it goes on or the deeper you commit. You find that if you go out he's telling you to be home by 10pm even though he's out all night, then he wants to know everyone you've spoken to. The list goes on. I'd wait until he's watching sport then go and turn the TV off on him and walk out. If he isn't equally respectful of that, then it's time to explain too him how tolerance and compromise in an equal relationship works.
john146wtl · 36-40, F
All control freaks are narcissistic. Flee from him ASAP!
SW-User
@StonerGirl69 Typical control-freak behaviour, sounds like it's time to go.
john146wtl · 36-40, F
@StonerGirl69 He's manipulating & projecting. My twin sister is a narcissist, yet calls everyone else one. She also has all the signs.

Pretty please, Google search narcissism. This is spiritual. The narcissistic boyfriend is destroying your soul.
StonerGirl69 · 26-30, F
@john146wtl lol I kind of am one also though, so our attitudes don’t go well together I suppose.
black4white · 56-60, M
Yep...this is just the beginning not its shows..then friends..then family...then no need to leave the house and have your own life...when does it stop?
And... You stay why?
@Elizabeth28 Exactly, @StonerGirl69 If somebody did that to me, I don't care who it was, I'd knock their lights out
john146wtl · 36-40, F
@ThatOneMan It's not easy to just up & leave.
@john146wtl They say that but there's no reason why it isn't
waterman1005 · 56-60, M
Get away from him!
annnnd you stay why kcik that a hole to the curb!
Wishingwellguy · 46-50, M
He’s not a bf , he’s a prison warden !
SW-User
I would say it’s time for a new boyfriend... you don’t need someone that controlling... you should be able to watch what you want, and it is really rude for him to come turn off the TV...
EnglishLitLover · 56-60, M
Tell him to go forth and multiply ....translation if needed? Tell him to fuck off!
Be yourself and don't let others control you!
Good luck!
SW-User
Come over to my house I will make some popcorn and watch it with you.. and share the popcorn 😃
MrBrownstone · 46-50, M
That is a dick move.
bargen0wwww · 26-30, M
Like i been saying for over a month, you need to leave. Your heart will heal over your feelings for him. The physical and mental pain hes been causing you can be permanent
updown2020 · 61-69, M
Does he spank you to if you misbehave?
StonerGirl69 · 26-30, F
@updown2020 he has.
updown2020 · 61-69, M
@StonerGirl69 Well I mean really spanked you not for fun but for discipline and it hurt a lot so much that you might have cried?
updown2020 · 61-69, M
Well what would you tell your friend if they told you about this story?
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