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I Hate Players

Cannot say I hate them, exactly.
But I don't like them very much.

You cannot handle a serious relationship or what?
You are not man enough to handle that?
Do you enjoy hurting women? Do you laugh when they cry?
Is a meaningful relationship with a loving person too much for you to handle?
Is it easier for you to blame others for your own loathsome behavior?
Perhaps, you are just a sad little boy who constantly needs your ego stroked.
I admit, I don't know, but whatever the reason you act this way I feel bad for you, because you will really never experience love.
Sure, you may convince some woman to love you until you get sick of her, but you won't know the joy of really loving her back.

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lasergraph · 70-79, M

We live in a different time now and relationships seem more fragile. We are in an age of instant gratification. If we want to make a phone call, it is right there on our cell. Problems on TV shows are all solved in the confines of an hour. If something breaks it's easier and cheaper to tyoss it and get another one and that goes for relationships too. Disposable. I wrote this a while back.

A Relationship.
(C) 2015 Edward York

A relationship is like a garden,
It requires some work to grow.
It can’t be rushed to harvest,
But must be handled slow.

It requires a lot of effort,
In order to be strong.
Sometimes we can get things right,
But often we are wrong.

Even though mistakes will happen,
They can be handled well.
As long as you stay focused,
And keep your path upon the trail.

So spend your time out in your garden,
And give it the nourishment it needs,
And keep a watchful eye out,
To protect it from the weeds.

Gingerwithasoul · F

Very good and thank you

SW-User

don't invest in people before you really know them, it's naive

Gingerwithasoul · F

Yes, it is and I have learned that lesson well.

SW-User

people are empty inside, their desire/needs are possessing them and most of us don't even know what we want so we gamble with selfish assholes 😅

Gingerwithasoul · F

@anotherclone: Never again, once was enough

ThePerfectUsername · 70-79, M

If the player was up front about being a player I see no problem. Nobody's relationship should be defined by someone else's rules.

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Gingerwithasoul · F

@Marmite: Okay, we understand each other, then.

ThePerfectUsername · 70-79, M

So we both have a distaste for liars but that still doesn't mean that *his* relationships have to be run according to *your* terms and conditions. He lied to you... so learn from it (perhaps trust a little less blindly, get over it (admit you got conned), and move on as gracefully as you can.

Gingerwithasoul · F

@Marmite: I would think it should be our relationship? That is the point. Look, people can do as they wish, doesn't mean I agree with it. Lying is a big deal and yes, I have learned from it hence the post. You do not have to agree with me, either. So, let's all just move on gracefully.
Have a great day

HaHLoBravado · 36-40, M

I think girls can be players too but I get it. JS..

Gingerwithasoul · F

I am sure they can be.

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Gingerwithasoul · F

@Breadroll: Bye bye

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