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I am heartbroken

I ended my engagement last night. We had a plan for our future, but we were just too diferent. I am very sad

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GerOttman · 70-79, M

Well, only you know what's best for you. I will comment that sometimes the couples who are most different make the best relationships. Often it is those differences which bring both a dynamic tension and a complimentary enhancement over the years which can make the relationship fun, challenging, and successful.

SteampunkOwl · 26-30, F

@GerOttman I was hoping that was the case

GerOttman · 70-79, M

@SteampunkOwl (edit) it can also be a lot of hard work and a very bumpy ride at times!

SteampunkOwl · 26-30, F

@GerOttman Yeah, i know. I just lovve him very much ant want us both to be happy. And we werent

SW-User

Better to end it than make a mistake and marry the wrong person

SteampunkOwl · 26-30, F

@SW-User Yeah, it is. We deserve to be happy, both of us

Adstar · 56-60, M

I hope you find someone who will be your life partner soon.. Just remember no one is perfect and the ability to negotiate through disagreements is often the key to keeping things together..

SteampunkOwl · 26-30, F

@Adstar Thank you <3

Adstar · 56-60, M

@SteampunkOwl

TexChik · F

I’m so sorry . That must really hurt .

SteampunkOwl · 26-30, F

@TexChik Yeah, but it's for the best. I love him very much. I am very grateful for the time with him and i really hope that we can still be friends when it stops hurting

TexChik · F

@SteampunkOwl oh I would imagine he is heart broken and is not likely going to be the same man you knew for quite awhile . He is in pain too . But! You knew marrying him was a mistake , think about the guy you want .

SteampunkOwl · 26-30, F

@TexChik I know that, i will not be the same too. But i hope that, in some way, this was for the best. We tryed all that we could

SW-User

So sorry, that hurts.

SteampunkOwl · 26-30, F

@SW-User Thank you

brian29715 · 51-55, M

I’m sure that hurts, but it’s better to get out now, then spend miserable years together.

SteampunkOwl · 26-30, F

@brian29715 Yeah, that's why i did it. We both deserve to be happy

SW-User

Good on you guys.😞Better to end it sooner than later. 🙏

SteampunkOwl · 26-30, F

@SW-User Yeah, i know. We ended it on good terms. I just hope that some day we can be friends

SW-User

@SteampunkOwl That may very well happen.✨

SteampunkOwl · 26-30, F

Thank you all for the support <3

Nomad7 · 26-30, M

Good, because it's too early for that crap anyway

SteampunkOwl · 26-30, F

@Nomad7 Depends... but u did make me smile

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