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I Am Insecure

I'm in a relationship with a man who's currently separated from his wife. He's trying to win custody of his child, and I was helping him sort evidence for his trial. He asked me to go through his messages and screenshot anything that I thought could be beneficial.

Well, I'm going through his messages, I found out that he was texting her about the memories he had about eating lunch at a place they always used to go, and her saying "you know you miss me" with him responding "maybe". This occurred while we were together, and although they aren't recent, I still feel really uncomfortable about the whole situation. He told me that he did it because he was trying to be extra nice so she would hopefully sign over custody of their child or at least be willing to compromise.

The last relationship I was in was also fairly messy, the guy told me he was single when he was actually in a relationship. I obviously left, after finding a bunch of information on the internet and talking to his girlfriend.

I have this nagging feeling that the guy I'm seeing now isn't faithful, but I have no proof, and don't want to jump to conclusions.
ADCxoDPC · 36-40, F
Nobody wants any baby mama drama and from the sound of it ur gonna get some. Guy sounds shady. Plus he has a kid which is a deal breaker atleast for me. My advice cut and run, life's too short to deal with that unnecessary shit.
Carissimi · 70-79, F
Trust your instincts.

To have you go through his personal messages is really strange to me. Why not give him some time to get his life in order, and if you both feel the same after his divorce, then restart the relationship. However, if your gut feeling is you can't trust him, then take heed of that.
If he cheated on her to be with you then almost guaranteed he will cheat on you with someone else. Women are the same way.
MissKitty03 · 36-40, F
Didn't cheat on her with me, I met him a year after he had been separated
BellaLocura · 51-55, F
I can't judge, but just take close inventory of what you want from a relationship because this could end up messy for you.
Goralski · 51-55, M
Why he would get you involved in this legal mess is beyond me. ....
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SoFine · 46-50, F
This man has no true value of the value, that he will cause his child to hate him for trying to cause a rift between a mother and her child. I would find ways to leave him ASAP....
MissKitty03 · 36-40, F
To be fair, his ex would rather party and drink (I've seen it first hand) than spend time with her child. So I understand why he wants custody.
NigelDoes · 56-60, M
That sounds like a very fucked up situation.
MissKitty03 · 36-40, F
I feel like my life is a very fucked up situation, lol.
NigelDoes · 56-60, M
That is certainly relatable.

 
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