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Are these good reasons to cheat on your doctor ordered diet?

1. "Come on, you can diet tomorrow!"

2. "We're [i]all[/i] having a piece!" (This is based on the peculiar but common idea that calories don't count if everyone is eating the same thing together).

3."It's Jane's birthday! You [i]have[/i] to have some cake!"

4. "No one diets in our house! We're Italian (or Greek or French or Russian or _____). When you come here, you have to eat!"

5. "Now I know you really want it, so I'm just going to put it right here on your plate! No, don't protest, don't argue, I'm not listening, I'm putting it right here!"

6. "Aunt Milly baked it from her special recipe. She'll be hurt if you don't try it!"

Any more you can add? I find food pushing one of the hardest aspects of dieting. It's hard to put out the effort to resist rich food when you are made to feel like you'll make your hostess mad, insult Jane and Aunt Milly, insult someone's ethnic traditions and remove yourself from the social circle.
Invisible · 26-30, M Best Comment
It's easy to have a great diet when you're a shut in
greenmountaingal · 70-79, F
@Invisible: How true! And I had to laugh when I read your post. It's really time people started cooking gourmet food that is not rich and calorie laden.

SW-User
It all boils down to: "Sacrifice your health for the sake of our egos."
Why would you sacrifice anything for people who want to be that selfish?
greenmountaingal · 70-79, F
@Tigerseyes: The combination of hungry, deprived, and socially pressured has gotten to me a few times. It's hard enough to argue with yourself about food without arguing with someone else or a group of people. It's as if I have to double my willpower.
sighmeupforthat · 46-50, M
keep that up and you'll be dropped by the insurance and have to pay out of pocket for that referral.
greenmountaingal · 70-79, F
@sighmeupforthat: Sorry, I don't get it. I have health insurance but they won't charge me more for my weight.
always finding excuses... that's why most people fail.
greenmountaingal · 70-79, F
@AutumnMichiki: These are not my excuses! I consider them annoying dietary challenges. I usually hold out and have even ended one relationship over this issue.
Well, one "advantage" of being diabetic is that when I refuse food or drink nobody doubts that I'm trying to preserve my life. I hate when people don't respect that you are needing to take care of your health, not their vanity as a cook.
greenmountaingal · 70-79, F
@bijouxbroussard: I am pre-diabetic, obese, and old (72). Obviously, I need to take care of my health. (If I say that, people say, "Now come on, you're [i]not[/i] fat![A major obvious lie] And don't say you're old! 72 isn't old!,My grandmother is 96!")

 
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