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I Hate My Husband

I so hate him. I just wish that he will stop coming back into my life. It is my fault I let him go back again and again and again. I am tired. I also hate myself for letting him come back. I sometimes wish that I could just take away all this pain I am feeling. 😞 It is so much pain. I am loosing my strength.

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rottenrobi · 56-60, F

Do not ever let a man take away your power and strength. It takes some of us longer than others to dump the dead weight. I promise, one day he won't move you and you'll finally be free. I hope you reach that point sooner than later.
Don't lose yourself in the process.

tryingtobeOK · 36-40, F

Thank you this is so inspiring. ❤️@rottenrobi

rottenrobi · 56-60, F

@tryingtobeOK I was with a man like that for 16 years. Smh... its hard to even type that. Drama, abuse... a bunch of bullshit, until I didn't care anymore. I wasnt sure it would ever happen.
I'm so happy now.
You deserve to be happy too. Don't lose hope. ❤❤

greenmountaingal · 70-79, F

Bad guys always do this. It is hard to locate, lure, seduce and train a brand new victim. So they try to recycle and lure back a former victim who has proved malleable in the past.

Don't depend on him seeing the light. Guys like this never change their ways (which worked so well for so long). They will never move on until you make them. Decide not to weaken and stick with it. Provide a strong example for your child.

aradia11 · 61-69, F

@greenmountaingal excellent points!!

helenS · 36-40, F

There's gotta be a change, a change in your life! 🌷

tryingtobeOK · 36-40, F

I always hope for that. He goes away, then he comes back. I want him to go away. For good. But he keeps coming back to see his daughter.@helenS And end staying again for good. It is painful because it’s like a cycle that never ends.

greenmountaingal · 70-79, F

@tryingtobeOK You're depending on him to make the badly needed change in your life. That is not his duty, it's yours. If you continue to depend on him going away permanently, it will never happen.

Newfound · 41-45, M

You will end it when you are able.

Whyme · 46-50, M

Hope your day gets better

lasergraph · 70-79, M

Sometimes the negatives in our lives cling to us like nylon in summer. It takes some time to loosen that grip.

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lasergraph · 70-79, M

@tryingtobeOK Some people are not capable of being happy. It comes from within and nobody else can give it to you.

tryingtobeOK · 36-40, F

It makes me feel unworthy each time it happens. Thinking, what else should I do to make him happy? Have I done enough? I don’t know and I am not sure. @lasergraph

lasergraph · 70-79, M

@tryingtobeOK Sometimes you reach that point when it is time to walk away. It sounds like you are there. Don't look back.

BobbieT · M

Don’t let him back in your life. You control your own destiny. Get a restraining order if you have to.

Skilllickous · 51-55, M

Oh dear iam so sorry for u n the pain ur going through

tryingtobeOK · 36-40, F

@Skilllickous Thank you. 💝

Skilllickous · 51-55, M

@tryingtobeOK ur most wel come you can talk to me any time if u like

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tryingtobeOK · 36-40, F

I wanted to do that last . . But if I did, he will take it against me, as what he always does. @Soccergirl2016

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smileylovesgaming · 31-35, F

Sure the make up sex is amazing

TexasGrandpa · 61-69, M

He will always be in your life because of the child you share. I only hope he is good and loving with her. As for you, move on as best you can. Find a new direction and find love again.

aradia11 · 61-69, F

Hang in there and be strong 💪
Don't let him lure you.
Poison is poison!!
Don't get stuck like me.
I hate mine many a times too

tryingtobeOK · 36-40, F

@aradia11 🥺
It’s like no matter how much I do, it is not good enough for him.

aradia11 · 61-69, F

@tryingtobeOK That is exactly what proves his worthless!

GJOFJ3 · 61-69, M

What holds you back from moving on?

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GJOFJ3 · 61-69, M

@tryingtobeOK that's understandable

greenmountaingal · 70-79, F

@tryingtobeOK He will always be the father of your child; it's DNA and you can't change that. But that doesn't mean he owns YOU. You know from experience that he is not good for you. Don't let him sell you a fantasy once again.

aradia11 · 61-69, F

@tryingtobeOK You don't want him being roll model for your daughter. She could later end up with a man like him. You certainly don't want that to happen.

KingofPizza2 · 36-40, M

It can be really hard to get rid of someone who gets tangled up in your life like a spouse does...

tryingtobeOK · 36-40, F

I know. I really know.@KingofPizza2

BearDownChicago · 41-45, M

Use this pain to come out of it stronger, more aware, and a better person

tryingtobeOK · 36-40, F

I know. I know me and my daughter will be fine, I dont even need his financial support. I just need to focus and learn to ignore him. @BearDownChicago

BearDownChicago · 41-45, M

@tryingtobeOK your daughter is going to see your strength through this and it will make her a stronger better person too. Sometimes emotions pull each other back in. It may be that deep down you still want him to be a father figure but at the end of the day it's looking out for yourself and your daughter. Time to cut him loose

PhoenixPhail · M

Can you stay with someone else for a while while you figure out what to do with your marriage?

jfox4anr · 46-50, M

Drop
him its 2020 a brand new year, start it out right.

Ian123 · 61-69, M

If you hate him why are you letting him in your life?

DownTheStreet · 56-60, M

Ugh

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