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I Hate My Husband

He is emotionally detached, he's out early everyday and he's not even working now, also he never calls me. He is a complete Emotional vampire he is draining me. I really don't care to put energy into this marriage. I guess I never invested emotionally into this because I know the kind of pig he is. I give up, the thing is he is trying to hold on to this emptiness. He damn well knows that I don't have any feelings left. This is torture.
SaintAdelaide
31-35, F
27 replies 127 views Nov 7, 2017
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SlippingAway
Why don't you initiate the divorce? Sometimes it's really the best thing for both people.
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aradia11 · 61-69, F
So sorry... could you check into a divorce? Your young you can get by and move on.
If there's no property or kids make a run for it.

Don't live miserable..I do
And it's not easy
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bamaboylick · 61-69, M
I feel for you. You have to make the decision to make yourself whole,and live with the consequences. I know,i have been. Big hugs
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SaintAdelaide · 31-35, F
@bamaboylick thanks 🤗
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Graciebaby · F
Cut your losses n leave him. Thats no life to live sweety. Perhaps he might realise if you do.
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SaintAdelaide · 31-35, F
@Graciebaby Thanks 🤗 I like the encouragement sometimes that's all one needs
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Graciebaby · F
Whats his problem, why doesnt he work. Does he want to be married. He is emotionally being abusive towards u, that cant be tollerated. You have more self respect than that.

Do some real talking. Then once clear, your consciance is clear decide.

I wish you all the best sweety. Ill be thinking on ya☺
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TBone · M
Hopefully there's no children involved here?
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TBone · M
Well congrats on your soon to be daughter. 🙂
I'm really sorry your going through this. Complicates things a bit..with a child.
Are you wanting to just move on...without him?
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Graciebaby · F
Id rather come from a broken home than live in one, so will your child.@SaintAdelaide
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SaintAdelaide · 31-35, F
@TBone it's possible I'm sure the child is better off with me😊 I would be alot more cheerful once he is out the picture. I'm excited about this pregnancy. There's so many single parents these days 😄
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lasergraph · 70-79, M
If he isn't working now, perhaps he is hanging on because you are the breadwinner.
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AlienZipper · 61-69, M
Sorry to hear that...that really sucks for you...
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bhatjc · 46-50, M
Time for you to get a lawyer
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SW-User
Hugs
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SaintAdelaide · 31-35, F
@SW-User thanks 🤗
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SW-User
@SaintAdelaide it’s all I have sister.
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jeancolby · 31-35, F
Time to move on.
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AllAboutLaffs · 80-89, M
I'm sorry ... ☹
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DownTheStreet · 56-60, M
Tough situation. I can't promise any fixes. Wanna spend the afternoon together?
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SaintAdelaide · 31-35, F
@DownTheStreet I bet your way more fun than him! Why not?
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DownTheStreet · 56-60, M
@SaintAdelaide promise I will do my best :)
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Quimliqer · 70-79, M
Commitment??
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SaintAdelaide · 31-35, F
@Quimliqer on whose part?
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Quimliqer · 70-79, M
Both. Relationships are not easy, but with effort they do survive.
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