I Hate My Husband

@MrAverage1965 It's so difficult to live with someone whom has physical or mental issues. Yes it can be quite a damper on your life.
My husband doesn't have much enthusiasm either for things. I was use to going places n having fun. Oh well breakfast at Denny's.. groceries or dinner is about it. Then there's the money issues. He only gets SS which is not much..I only make so much yet have to stretch it.
When I hear my coworker s talking about there cruises n nice trips it makes me more sad.
Oh well we endure..n there's a light up ahead somewhere.

I am the bread winner here, she just handed in her notice at work. No cruises here either.

@MrAverage1965 So sorry I too am the bread winner! I certainly wasn't seeing things this way few yrs back!! He cannot work w his health issues. So it's a tough one..
He did work till he was 66.
Therefore couldn't apply for Disability. You have to apply before you reach SS age.
He was already collecting Minimal SS so that's it.

Ok hope your day is going well

@blkstonerboi thank you

@aradia11 no problem ma'm thank u for sharing your inner feelings and just keep your chin up. All things get better with time and work. ;)

@melbeacher thank you..one of the main problems is money..I work He is late 69 s and can't due to Arthritis n other health problems.

@Blueyed really...Glad to hear I'm not alone. Especially in my age category. I am expecting a pension in a few years..etc..n I could lose half in a divorce.
The sad thing is the old man is wrapped up in his Problems he doesn't have a clue how I feel talking to him is difficult...

Do share your story if u wish

@Peaches Glad everything worked out for you. I know some day Life will be back on track. He has mental n physical issues that cause him to be a problem child!!

Oh well maybe when I am retired or if the good Lord takes him....one way or another things will balance.

Thank you for reading.

@aradia11 A lawyer would give you your options.

@chrisCA should give it though t just hate to lose 💰... lower pay..n other consequences

@aradia11 I understand. You sound trapped.

@WoodyAq no hmm I'll ck it out

@aradia11 when you do, get back to me ... I've got a proposal for you ...