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I Think Failed Relationships Change People

Nothing like someone I've been with 5 yrs and trusted with my life, to have confided in of all the hurt I've been through, to have me actually believe and start to dream again, of a good life ...only to have her up and walk away from this relationship, without so much as a word. Not a fight, not a text break up, not a phone call, nothing. Just gone. Thanks for teaching me, once again, that I truly cannot trust a fkin soul. I didn't NEED you. But you were who I was loyal to and who I waited for every damn day. Thanks.

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HotMessExpress102 · 41-45, F

Oh doll... spill your anger and hurt here, so that you can find your wings and fly again. 😘

Wolfdancer · 56-60, F

@HotMessExpress102 My wings are broken beyond repair. I will never fly again. I got nothing to offer but me, and that wasn't enough for someone I thought was so wonderful. I set my boundaries because I was so so hurt before this. I took my time with her & didn't rush into anything. I was brutally honest throughout, I was loyal as fk*. The least I deserved was her honesty & to communicate to me, rather than just ghost me when we live 10 min apart, same town. Just fkin bs. Thank you HME lol that should be my nic. But actually, I got my shit together, she does not, although she may think so lol

HotMessExpress102 · 41-45, F

@Wolfdancer I am heartbroken for you, because don’t you ever dare think that you alone are not enough!
You wake every morning and carry on, you put a smile on your face even though you don’t want to. You will fly again.... I promise 😘
Purge this pain and eliminate her from your darkness. She clearly does not deserve the depth of you.

Wolfdancer · 56-60, F

@HotMessExpress102 Thank you for your uplifting words. I always carry on. But truly flying days are long gone. I'm smart enough to know that at least. Eliminating her means eliminating other people along with her, so that she no longer knows my business whatsoever. If I wasn't isolated enough, now there is no one. Just me and my sweet furbabies. I'll pass the days, that's all I can do, the best I can. I moved home 6 years ago out of a terrible narcissistic relationship that all but crippled me emotionally...I got back on my own feet with my own place & began to rebuild my life, my circle, this is just the icing on the cake so to speak, because she KNEW THAT and how does an adult just ghost you when two weeks prior calls me family and we look at a potential house to buy???? FAMILY??? No, I'm not enough or I'm too much. I know the reality of it. It's the story of my entire life. Too soft, too hard. Not enough or too much.

HotMessExpress102 · 41-45, F

@Wolfdancer I can not express enough for how sorry I am that she did this to you.
I truly wish you love and light 😘

Wolfdancer · 56-60, F

@HotMessExpress102 Thank you. Yeah. No closure. Just left to speculate. Much love & light to you too