I can appreciate all of those feelings as bbn i have them too.

Stop it! The other guy was a "dead beat".... sorry but I think it is true. Get out and have a lil fun, time flies by!

Stop that! You're a hell of a catch. The last guy held you back.

I feel the exact same way about myself, except I'm single is the difference.

Well.... any guy would be honored to have you , and if he cared about you as much as he should , your health issues wouldnt matter to him...chin up give the new guy a small chance , go slow , see what happens ....ok im done now, Hi from Canada , beautiful pics too....

It's all about confidence. Not these things you listed.

confidence in who you are = 90% of a relationship.

STOP putting yourself down

Silly boys rate girls by " dumb, uneducated, I can't have kids, I am not rich, I'm not witty or clever or cute.

Gentlemen look for a kind warm honest loving heart

Happy that someone has mutual interest with you. You deserve it

I always thought you were pretty😕

Don't be so hard on yourself , go have a lil fun!

Nobody is perfect and you don't see yourself as others do. If you're fresh out of a relationship, it's normal to underestimate yourself for a while. However, if the new guy likes you and this is what you really want, forget about what you *think* you deserve, and go for it.

When I was dating, one characteristic that would turn me off about a woman would be self-loathing. NOT being poor, uneducated, having poor health, etc.

You could be setting yourself up for a self-fulfilling prophecy here.

Don't think like that you deserve to be happy and be in a good relationship just like anyone else

You are being too hard on yourself and just ended an engagement. It’s okay to be alone for awhile.

Low self esteem, really, really tough one to crack, I found.

Come on dear, you're being very hard on yourself, that's all.