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I feel like maybe I'm supposed to be alone

I'm just not cut out for dating or relationships. 🤷🏻‍♀️

I'm f%*#ing disgusting to look at, tall like an ogre, I have health issues that make me tired all the time (who wants to be with someone like that?), I'm dumb, uneducated, I can't have kids, I am not rich, I'm from a poor family, I'm not witty or clever or cute.

I like someone right now which sucks, because I'm fresh out of a 4 year relationship. The new guy is way out of my league, but he says he likes me too (god only knows why). I think it would be best if I just stay friends with him. He deserves a hell of a lot better than me.
SW-User
Nobody is perfect and you don't see yourself as others do. If you're fresh out of a relationship, it's normal to underestimate yourself for a while. However, if the new guy likes you and this is what you really want, forget about what you *think* you deserve, and go for it.
Callaghen · 61-69, M
Well.... any guy would be honored to have you , and if he cared about you as much as he should , your health issues wouldnt matter to him...chin up give the new guy a small chance , go slow , see what happens ....ok im done now, Hi from Canada , beautiful pics too....
Livingwell · 61-69, M
Stop that! You're a hell of a catch. The last guy held you back.
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DrWatson · 70-79, M
When I was dating, one characteristic that would turn me off about a woman would be self-loathing. NOT being poor, uneducated, having poor health, etc.

You could be setting yourself up for a self-fulfilling prophecy here.
DearAmbellina2113 · 41-45, F
@DrWatson it is what it is. 🥺
Virgo79 · 61-69, M
I always thought you were pretty😕
IWasCallingYaLarry · 26-30, M
I feel the exact same way about myself, except I'm single is the difference.
DearAmbellina2113 · 41-45, F
@IWasCallingYaLarry I'm single too.
IWasCallingYaLarry · 26-30, M
@DearAmbellina2113 Thought you said you are with a guy right now but not sure why he is into you. I don't get it.
heavyone2 · 61-69, M
Stop it! The other guy was a "dead beat".... sorry but I think it is true. Get out and have a lil fun, time flies by!
Don't think like that you deserve to be happy and be in a good relationship just like anyone else
Huckleberry42 · 41-45, M
Happy that someone has mutual interest with you. You deserve it
DearAmbellina2113 · 41-45, F
mrh1972 · MVIP
I can appreciate all of those feelings as bbn i have them too.
SW-User
Come on dear, you're being very hard on yourself, that's all.
LookingForTheSummer · 31-35, M
It's all about confidence. Not these things you listed.
PhilDeep · 51-55, M
Low self esteem, really, really tough one to crack, I found.
heavyone2 · 61-69, M
Don't be so hard on yourself , go have a lil fun!
iamonfire696 · 41-45, F
You are being too hard on yourself and just ended an engagement. It’s okay to be alone for awhile.
SW-User
confidence in who you are = 90% of a relationship.

STOP putting yourself down

Silly boys rate girls by " dumb, uneducated, I can't have kids, I am not rich, I'm not witty or clever or cute.

Gentlemen look for a kind warm honest loving heart

 
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