No, it's not "all your fault". If that were the case, you'd have been the one pissing away your money.
You weren't.
Money problems suck, because there are limited things you can do to correct them.
If he loved you, he wouldn't have put you in this bind (or at the very least would be helping to get you out of it.)
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A businessman, very successful finds himself underwater financially. Everybody's asking him for money. He's asked the bank, friends, family, no one will help. Desperate, he goes into a church and talks to a priest. Priest listens to his story and says, "Take a bible and a small table, go out on the beach early one morning. Let the wind turn the pages of the bible. You'll find the answer to your problem."
Couple of years go by and the priest sees the businessman again. Guy's not stressed, seems happy, so the priest asks him about it. "What did you read when the wind opened the bible?"
"Chapter 11" says the businessman.