I Am A Victim Of Emotional Abuse And Verbal Abuse

No, it's not "all your fault". If that were the case, you'd have been the one pissing away your money.
You weren't.
Money problems suck, because there are limited things you can do to correct them.
If he loved you, he wouldn't have put you in this bind (or at the very least would be helping to get you out of it.)
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A businessman, very successful finds himself underwater financially. Everybody's asking him for money. He's asked the bank, friends, family, no one will help. Desperate, he goes into a church and talks to a priest. Priest listens to his story and says, "Take a bible and a small table, go out on the beach early one morning. Let the wind turn the pages of the bible. You'll find the answer to your problem."

Couple of years go by and the priest sees the businessman again. Guy's not stressed, seems happy, so the priest asks him about it. "What did you read when the wind opened the bible?"

"Chapter 11" says the businessman.

I'm sorry you're having to go through this. It's not your fault, though. His actions can't be your fault. Make as clean of a break as you can, as quickly as you can. Don't take his calls, answer texts, etc. If he has access to your bank account, change that. If he knows your passwords for email, Amazon, Netflix, whatever, change them.

Once you make the break and separate him out, then you'll have time to sit and really assess where things are. Sometimes a creditor will be willing to work with you to restructure your bill payments, for example. But you can't deal with that sort of issue while you're also dealing with the more urgent issue of getting space between you and him.

Take a few deep breaths, and try to just go one day at a time when things get really stressful. If you need somebody to talk to, my inbox is always open. I'm willing to just listen, or give advice; or both, depending on the situation.

It’s your life, pull up you big girl panties, take control, try to smile and keep putting one foot in front of the other, making the gap larger between you and him. Don’t let him have the control, it’s your life and you own it!

He’s decided? How’s about YOU decide and take control of your life?

Who cares if he loved you. Just get on with the rest of your life and never speak to him again. Declare bankruptcy if you need to. You need to just start over and love isn't worth the pain he gave you.

You can’t change him but you can change things for you and find happiness and stability. With a life like that you won’t be happy only existing. Take care of you and let him go.

He has done you a big favour, you can now find someone who respects you and loves you....hope you can get out of debt soon...

When you love a person always test him or her
Never ever give a penny of money to ur partner always remember that
This world is only of money my friend
Blood relationships are build on money if you don’t have money you have nothing

Just forget him and don’t ever contact him . Try and make new friends and go out to heal ur pain .. today you are in debt tomorrow if you got money . He will again knock ur door and come back 2u

You're not alone..