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I Have a Special Needs Child

There needs to be more awareness in the general public. When people try to joke with a child who DOES NOT GET JOKES they are not being rude when they get upset, and if they turning away, averting their eyes, walking faster to outpace you, or covering their ears that's a pretty clear sign that they are not taking what you say as a joke. I know people don't mean any harm, but from a parent's standpoint hearing a child claim that "I really tried mommy, I just don't understand what they are talking about" is heartbreaking. Dealing with the backlash from just that situation can be even worse. THEY cannot read body language like you or I, but they put out pretty damn clear signals. Please pay attention to the 'please leave me alone' look on their face. I cannot even count how many times I have said to people "hey sorry, but he doesn't really feel like playing right now" and got an F U look in return. Autism really does speak, people need to learn to hear it.
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FunReader55 · 51-55, M
I have a 19 year old son on the spectrum. We always used to joke that we wished autism came with a cast so all the morons in public would shut up!! I wish I had some good advice but hang in there!! I know not everyones story turns out well but ours has. But we remember well the days you described perfectky!!

This is not to make laugh but msybe smile: imagine a 6’8 well over 300 pound man child crying like he witnessed his entire family gunned down because he spilled his coke. Only to completely enrage and beret the “fool” that tred to help out by handing him a pepsi!! Lol!!
Tinkerhell · 41-45, F
@FunReader55 Lol, I've gotten a similar reaction because the mac n cheese was the wrong colour.
FunReader55 · 51-55, M
@Tinkerhell here’s my favorite. We get accussed of buying Smores cereal from Kroger instead of Publix. Not something store specific!! But a packaged product!! Lol!!
Tinkerhell · 41-45, F
@FunReader55 Lol! Not had that problem, but then he will only eat frosted mini wheats.
Haha!! I have a client of 36 who gets really angry is he can’t have a COKE!! He’s actually been arrested and sent to jail when he was out in the community with a carer and the carer has said he can’t have a COKE. @FunReader55
FunReader55 · 51-55, M
@Tinkerhell you know your going nuts when you start to question if they’re right!!! Lol!!
Tinkerhell · 41-45, F