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I Want To Know Why Why Why

It seams everything bad happens to me, like God is just seeing how much I can take before I just give up on living. I'm sure people have worse problems than I do, but I look at those around me and realize I'm the only one who has been through so much. I don't know how much more I can take.
Fungirlmmm · 51-55, F
It isn't about comparing ourselves to what others have or don't have; it is about being thankful for the things in our life that make us happy. For some people it is kids, others maybe it is a job, or maybe our pets. For some of us that have an illness it may be just waking up to a new day some days. One thing I have discovered in my lifetime is that I can't compare my life to others because it does me no good and when I did I ended up miserable. I have had horrible things happen to me in my life- I have been in a relationship filled with domestic violence. I have been shot. I have had multiple miscarriages and lost a child. There are other things, but those come to mind at this moment. All of those things have happened to me yet I'm still here and able to sign on with the screen name fungirl. You don't have to be happy all the time and we all face things every day, but you have to believe that today is going to be okay because I am alive and tomorrow is going to be even better because I'm going to make it better for myself by taking the actions to do so. I hope you feel better soon, but remember some days just waking up to a new day is enough until you get to your happy place again.
rjc36 · 56-60, M
Very well said. @Fungirlmmm
rjc36 · 56-60, M
Always try to look at the good things in life. We all have bad days and things that can make us feel like we are at the breaking point at times. I have always tried to find the good even in the bad. I believe in God and pray that he gives you a break and helps you find the best of life in the worst of times. Fight the good fight.
NigelDoes · 56-60, M
@rjc36 always look on the bright side of life.
rjc36 · 56-60, M
That's the best advice for anyone. @NigelDoes
SweetMae · 70-79, F
Try and change the things that you can.
SW-User
It's the test. You have challenges. I know no one other than you can understand what you are going through, but at the end of the day, you'll emerge out victorious and the you'll be the one with experience to deal with the odds. People may look up to you for advice.
DearAmbellina2113 · 41-45, F
You sound like me
DearAmbellina2113 · 41-45, F
@NigelDoes fuck off, no one asked you.
NigelDoes · 56-60, M
@DearAmbellina2113 question was posed to everyone why you such a whiny little bitch? I've been fucking homeless for five months because my car and identity was stolen and you don't hear me complaining so shut the fuk up!
rjc36 · 56-60, M
Keep fighting the good fight. @DearAmbellina2113
RobG22 · 51-55, M
It's just a test of your faith and inner strength.
rjc36 · 56-60, M
Very true. @RobG22
Thingschange4444 · 51-55, M
Be strong. Continue to be strong. Life is very very testing at times.
GeniUs · 56-60, M
I have
Bruxism
Reynauds
Psoriasis
Have lost (of people who shouldn't have died)
Friends
A daughter
My sister
And my kids won't talk to me anymore unless they want money.
Is it a test? Maybe.
Am I passing it, of course I am because they don't know who they f*cking with!
NigelDoes · 56-60, M
@GeniUs why won't your kids talk to you?
GeniUs · 56-60, M
It started with my ex stopping me seeing my kids once we got divorced because they were always 'doing something', when I complained how unreasonable it was she contacted her solicitor and said I'd threatened her. My solicitor said it was going to get messy unless I stayed away. Then their mother told them I didn't want anything to do with them and didn't pay anything toward their upkeep. I was told this by my middle daughter and my mother in law. When I said 'I'll screen shot a list of payments and send it to you.' They both declined. They are happy for me to be the bogeyman and her to be the heroine even if it is a load of crap.
dentope3 · M
life is funny, it gives the test first and teaches the lesson afterward. keep your head up and know that better days are just around the corner
Its not like you can see everything everyone else is going through.. People have secrets .. If you dont like your life then change it?
RobG22 · 51-55, M
You can do it.
Thingschange4444 · 51-55, M
@RobG22 Sorry. Hands up that was a response to some weirdo. My apologies
RobG22 · 51-55, M
@Thingschange4444 no problem. SW seems to do this occasionally. Thanks.
Thingschange4444 · 51-55, M
@RobG22 I was a bit shock to see it in response to ur message as it was intended for some SW weirdo. Thank u for being understanding.
xixgun · M
He never puts more on you than you can take. Ask Him for help.
melissa001 · 51-55, F
@xixgun I've been asking and praying for nearly 40 yrs. I've just learned to deal cause nothing has changed.
RobG22 · 51-55, M
We're in the same boat,
melissa001 · 51-55, F
@RobG22 how so?
RobG22 · 51-55, M
The message was actually for another user. Sorry.
melissa001 · 51-55, F
Oh ok
SolidHeart · 46-50, M
Please don't lose on hope and stick more to God.

 
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