I’ve been told this so many times of my life.

I can’t even stand up for myself, I’ve been called passive aggressive and it’s very annoying, too agreeable because I don’t wanna cause an argument, also my friends say I can’t handle conflict right in my face which was rude. I can so. I am just scared that people will get mad at me. I’m trying to be the nice girl but people says stop and learn to be less nice and more assertive and honest. A guy I know from school would pick on me a LOT. No he doesn’t like me like me. He always finds ways to piss me off, pick on me and always bug me. My best friend said it’s because I’m too easy nd I don’t stand up for myself and I’m a HUGE softie. He told me I was pathetic after I didn’t call him out for being rude and yelling in my face. He was like, “You’re weak AF. What are you going to do? Cry to mommy and daddy? You’re just going to let me talk to you like that? God......you’re pathetic.” And walked off.
Rude! I complained about it to my friends. My guy best friend said he seems rude but he has a point and I need to start standing up for myself. Guys like girls that can fight back, know what they want, say their OWN opinions and speak their minds and I’m none of that. He said what if I was I’m an abusive relationship and I could end up dead.
My best friend said, “If you would quit acting so damn passive aggressive, then we would know what you want! That annoys me!!
I envy people that can stand up for themselves and speak the truth without being scared.