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I Am Always Second Best

Always....in 27 years of marriage I was always second to his whores....I seem to choose men that choose other woman....no matter the love I give...I know I will never be the first and only choice for anyone....I know it....It just hurts....

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ladyamelia · 51-55, F

I am learning to walk away....its hard...but i am finding myself...I deserve better and I will have it...

NiteRaven93 · 26-30, M

You do deserve better. Everyone deserves better. You seem like a nice lady. Idk why but some men are just push overs and don't care about other people and their feelings

SW-User

I'm sorry to hear that . I learned that we choose people based on how we think we deserve to be treated . I learned that I like being treating well . Love is not something I chose to give away freely ,it should be earned .. Like respect . Respect and love yourself first . You will get it back in return and if you don't by that person then it's time to find someone who will .

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Memetic · 56-60, F

Im sorry. That sounds so painful even for one time. Leave alone over and over. Why do you think its a pattern for you?

booboo · M

DKMoon · M

I think from reading some of your other posts that you are a first choice for someone.

jcpr63 · 56-60, M

Some men just continue to make BAD decisions......it's not you.

SStarfish ·

It's your choice.. To stay.. When you can walk away.. Don't be 2nd choice. Leave. Leave them.. Don't put up with ****

SStarfish ·

Yeah it's hard :/ ugh :(

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