I Had An Online "Affair"

@Cheesecake yes depends on the guy, the woman circumstances.. 3% leave only .. but what ever the circumstance .. you leave becfore cheating, its the decent thing to do.. even if its agreed on .. cheating changes a person.. the AP imprints on you, you get used to them , its the bonding chemicals in your brain.. thats why it feels real.

Its an Affair .. exactly nothing more nothing less ..either you both are married or one of you are.. in a committed relationship you have the " being there" for one another..
in an affair , its fantasy not real..real life does not exsist,only good times ,no problems.. he was most likely dealing with getting ready for work..or the kids needed him or his wife.. NO ones soul mate is another persons spouse..its not love its limerance.. Affair Love.. when his wife finds out you will be dumped and thrown under the bus.. if your husband finds out..same thing only vise versa.

It is sad that was how you were treated, but the reality is not only is there the possibility he is with someone, but it's online. Online is not the place to love someone. Words are not backed up with actions. Too much can be hidden.

Absolutely. You commit, regardless of any impediment. I'm so sorry that they have let you down.

hard to fault your thinking ,it is those times that make a difference , english

Made me really rethink it all .

Talk is cheap, until it's not.

Unless you or he whichever the case gets divorced the spouse is the one who had the promises made to them and they are being broken. I am not sure what people expect? If you cannot be loyal to a spouse who will you be loyal to?

its not real thats why..those guys online most are married and just want to take what they can from women online,..

Sometimes all you are looking for is a few minutes with that special person & a soft place to land. :)

A son of a bitch told that to wife some years back. Turned out he used black magic so my wife would prostituting so he could live a good life. Shit.

I agree with you. Is he hiding something?

I had almost same experience.

Which is why having an “affair” with someone already committed is foolish and unlikely to be satisfying on any deep emotional level. You [b]cannot[/b] be their priority by definition of that type of relationship. 🤔