I Had An Online "Affair"

@Friendlygirl plus its all the manipulation the married man does to get you to trust him and think he is sincere and his intentions are from love but really they are all lies to get you because you are his body type or something..

@LindaM i agree, but there is manipulation on her side as well...if you google husband poachers.. spider women.. you will see that there are women who have been cheated on who delibratly go out to get a married man..and then there are the narsistic men who cheat because they need their ego fed..

@Friendlygirl in my opinion they're all dogs! lol :)

@Friendlygirl Husband poachers.. that's pretty funny.

@kokopuffy not to the wives its not.. they call these women whores and sluts and cum Dumptsers and worse..

@Friendlygirl No kidding. Tell me something I don't know.

"these women"...equally funny.

@Friendlygirl what about the dogs of a husband who doing the cheating and preying on vulnerable women for their sex because their wives wont be intimate for whatever the reasons...it starts with the married men sleezing around...

@LindaM where theres supply theres demand.. yes some men are dishonest and sleezes..but it works both ways these women are equally dogs who pray on vunrable men who are too selfish to say no..but once the woman knows hes married or if she knew to begin with..then the fault lays with her if she does not end it .. ive been told of women going up to the wives and blatantly tell them " if your husband wasnt happy id want your husband" and both the Husband and wife laugh..she secure in her marriage then the other woman keeps poaching and wearing the husband down.. and he being imperfect succumbs..and a majority of cheating men are happy in their marriages.. both are to blame..it takes two to gave sex..

@Friendlygirl i dont know about what you just said but i respect your response, i wont say anything :)

@Friendlygirl Wow, that's funny. Men have no free will I suppose? Oh ya, they're husbands, it's written in the vows. Thou shall not think for yourself ever again.

You do know LindM was once the other woman right? You know, one of "these women". But now she is holier than thou because she's not. Nothing like the pot calling the kettle black.

@kokopuffyits women like you who help mm cheat, you go and block people whos opinions you dont agree with ..delete their post .. you proudly wear the other woman whore mantle like its some thing to be coverted .. a former other woman is far better than a the woman who continues to sleep with a married man ..who has absolutly no respect for herself go on block me .. it just shows that you cant handle the truth
@LindM good on you if your a former mistress ..you at least can hold your head up now.. if i had a choice of association with you or a curerent Affair Partner i know whod id choose..
Men have free will yes, but offer him sex on a platter most men will take it they are imperfect and not Jesus..they are simple creatures and live in the moment ..they love who evers infront of them giving them a blow job even a prostitute can do the trick at least they get paid and face facts that the mm is not going to leave their wives for them .. most times it the wives who kick them out and thats how these woman get the man..very rare is it that the mm chooses a loose easy woman with no morals ,who moral compass is very broken..you may think you are the exception to the rule.. your head in burried in the sand.. but its your waste of life .. i only hope that Karma doesnt pay you back.. maybe your mm will find a younger woman leaving you in the cold.. it a cold hard fact we woman face ..the possibility that our man wont want us one day ..but theres no way id choose a life like yours.. I have too much respect for my woman sisters and myself..how could any woman want to hurt another woman in the most disgusting way possible? I expect you to block me ..its what you do.. what a loser.

@LindaM i replyed to kokopuffy ..read before she deletes the coment ,,its what she does if she doesnt like what you say.

@Friendlygirl hello, i just read what you said, she already deleted me because i asked her why she posts her affair like front page news..i dont think he will leave his wife but she believes he loves her and thats all she cares about

@Friendlygirl You do know that you can't delete replies in other people's posts right? Oh ya, apparently not.. "Read it quick before it disappears". What are you, in high school? Lol

You really think I read that whole thing? I didn't. Because I don't give a rats ass what you think.

But you know what this man has done since my car accident a month ago?

First, I called him from the accident site while he was getting out of the shower. He was at the site before the ambulance left with me. He saw my car and wondered how the fk I was even able to call him. Yet, he was the first person I knew needed to know what happened.

My puppy bolted terrified out of the car and he spent 2 hours looking for her. Once there were enough people looking, he joined me in the ER until I was released and he could take me home.

Since he was the contact number for the puppy's return, my sister called him and wanted him to come put up fliers. He said, Um no, I am staying at the hospital with Koko until I can take her home. And he did.

My puppy was found 9 hours later and he was there within 15 minutes to bring her home. The entire thing took 10 hours on a Saturday and the last thing he was concerned about was being at home. He coordinated with my bff to make sure someone was with me overnight and he was back the next day.

He's taken me to every chiro appt (3 a week), he's fed me, cooked, picked up my pain meds, took puppy to his place for a run a few times, done my laundry, vacuumed the house, picked a new car for me that he approved sight unseen by me, had his cousin pick it up with him and bring it back to MM's home until I could drive it, it was there for 3+ weeks. This all resulted in him and his cousin talking and I am meeting his cousin at a fundraiser at the end of March. Since it's for his cousin's daughter, I am sure other family members will be there.

We picked my car up on Monday after chiro and he helped get my gate open so I could park it. I have explicit instructions to not open the gate myself today because he's still coming to chiro with me even though I have a car now.

Then there was the day my special needs daughter locked herself out of the house while checking for mail while I was at work. It was winter and he lives 20 minutes away, he was here in 10 to rescue her.

I've been with him for 10 years and he is an invaluable integral part of my life, so if you or anyone else believes anything they say is going to change that, you've all lost your minds.

You know what I have asked of him in all the time we have been together. Nothing. Not one damn thing. Anything he's done or given has been 100% of his own free will and unconditional.

And you can tell Linda I blocked her to put her out of her misery. Heaven forbid she be forced to read things she doesn't agree with like it's being forced upon her and not her choice.

@LindaM shes what we call here in australia a wanker and fuck wit.. a wate of skin.. its whats she does because she knows deep down shes in the wrong.. if she could delet all this post she would but its not hers!!

@kokopuffy of course you didnt read it all thats typical you, but others will and it has nothing to do with the level of my education..
oh he does pay for your service's? My mistake.. taking care of his side bit so he doesnnt nees to look for another right now..
You blocked her surprise surprise..
And i know YOU cant delete other peoples post...that the beauty od replying to you on some one eles post..they get to read both sides of the affair issue..you only seem to want to hear from the ones cheering you.

@Friendlygirl And? You don't only want to hear from ones who are "cheering you" in bashing others? How is that so different?

What would you know about what's "typical" for me? Are you a fan? Have you been following my posts?

I blocked Linda because she asked why I needed to post things like they were news (paraphrasing here). So, I thought it best to put her out of her own misery and now there's no need to read what I post. Pretty simple solution considering she couldn't seem to help herself and stay away.

I don't recall referencing your education, are you making things up now?

Of course you didn't know about deleting replies or you wouldn't have said..

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i replyed to kokopuffy ..read before she deletes the coment ,,its what she does if she doesnt like what you say.

@kokopuffy i bat for whats right.. the not the wrong.. i bat for kindness and love and things that bring No Harm to another person no matter the circumstances, there is no excuse ,no reason for an affair ., cheating is disgusting.. Its wrong ..thats why its kept secret .. any one who takes part is filthy trash.,they like to think they are doing no wrong.. but You Are.. to another human being damaging a family a persons whole view on relationships..they justify it " oh imlove him he loves me , we are just waiting till tne kids grow up, finish school, collage, get married.."
If youve read this far good on you..
a woman whos h cheated on her.. he strung the OW along for 4 years.. we he got caught .. his grown children turned on Him.. hardly talk to him one hates his guts these are adult children with strong morals brought up by their mother that way., they hate the OW too for her part ... as soon as the wife found out he threw the stupid cow away like aused condom i say stupid because she got involved with a mm willingly she fancied him for along time .. see he loves his wife , but this whore gave him the oppertunity,no one thought him capable but how wrong ..she came on to him.. he took it.
Still reading?
Now she sits up at her house still single when she could have found her own man .. this woman is like 60 ..the affair was discoverd 2 years ago.. and the most funnynthing is she caught feelings for him and he never loved her.. just used her.. now if she at least asked for money thats some thing in return right? Yet she offered to buy him ..bribe him to get him to leave..
At least you have a car and a dog now..thay accounts for somthing right?

@Friendlygirl Another wall of text I am not reading.

@kokopuffy of course not... cant handle the truth.. shows every one that you can dish it but cant take it..
I hope your affair ends like all affairs.. and i think it will..

@kokopuffy actually your answer was longer than mine whaffling on about this parragon of virtue who does so much for you while cheating on his wife..and i read it all , yeah like i said ..dish out,cant take.

@Friendlygirl No actually it's because after 10 years, do you not think I have heard and read it all. Do you think I care?

@Friendlygirl He is pretty amazing. The difference being, I know what I am talking about when I speak of him. I've known him for 10 years. You, I assume, do not really know one thing about him.

@kokopuffy obviously not.. then why get on here and try and find a cheer sqaud? You must expect the haters as well..not delete their comments or block the person.. its quite amusing reading you gushing at how wonderful this cheat of a man is..
If you want to be a side chick , that your choice.. i like reading different posts.. but bragging about a philanderer.. lol

@kokopuffy God!!!! I hope not ..id would never want to knowingly associate with a cheater .. and this world blames the man in the affair .." hes at fault ,hes the one who made vows" it used to shun women like you..some still do ..but the tables are turning on Him.and