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I Hate Kids

Look what my 11 year old has done to my rented flat
Keepitsimple51-55, F
Time to gut his room and take everything away.
PrivateHellM
Looks like someone needs a ton of work to pay for damages and learn a lesson in discipline. I would have her so busy with chores she wouldn't have time for anything but eating and sleeping.
SuperA70-79, F
@RemovedUsername634280 Let social services take her if you must, but please don't choose someone to take over. You're not in the right mindset to be able to choose wisely.
She may need a break from you as well. You sound so overwhelmed. She can sense that and plays off of it. You already stated you raised an older sibling with autism. Maybe you just can't handle it anymore and she is acting the way she does because she knows this.
SomeMichGuyM
@RemovedUsername634280 2 with autism is a very big challenge 馃槪
RemovedUsername63428041-45, F
@SomeMichGuy near impossible
RemovedUsername63428041-45, F
I'm not looking for sympathy. I just need to talk about this with someone anyone. And be honest about how I'm feeling
RemovedUsername63428041-45, F
@LuciaRose I've been telling them for over 2 years I need a break otherwise I am.going to give up and they said I'm. Not entitled to respite. If I had had a break.then maybe I would have not been pushed to breaking point. But I didn't it was just work.and this and now I'm exhausted with still no help.in sight
LuciaRose31-35, F
@RemovedUsername634280 have you got any friends/ family..
RemovedUsername63428041-45, F
@LuciaRose not that would help. I'm still torn. A part of me doesn't want to give up and wants to get a caravan and just move away lots of space where they can both run and scream. And then there is the tired part
Spokeskitties7546-50, M
Um.... yeah.... military school is flashing in my head for the little shit at that juncture
woodshedboy46-50, M
a paddle would help right now
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wackidywack22-25
How on earth
wackidywack22-25
@RemovedUsername634280 why does she do that ??
RemovedUsername63428041-45, F
@wackidywack she gets angry over the slightest thing. This door was because her brother didn't get out of her way quick enough and she got angry. My glassware got smashed because I told her she's grounded
wackidywack22-25
soulsrespiteF
Well, shit. have it fixed? You鈥檒l probably pay less for that than telling the landlord about it.
soulsrespiteF
You are. Do you have any idea why she鈥檚 really doing it? @RemovedUsername634280
RemovedUsername63428041-45, F
@soulsrespite autism.and my son has it too. Between them one day we'll burn to death in this flat, because one of them will have set then place on fire
soulsrespiteF
Oh, I didn鈥檛 know. You are strong. You鈥檝e helped them grow to this age. (: @RemovedUsername634280
RemovedUsername63428041-45, F
She also calls me every name under the sun and refuses to do anything in the house. I told her I lost my job because of her behaviour and she shouted at me YOU LOST YOUR JOB BECAUSE YOUR LAZY
Keepitsimple51-55, F
Why was she able to even start talking to you like that?@RemovedUsername634280
dumpstermeow41-45, F
@RemovedUsername634280 I have no sympathy for you, you chose to reproduce, deal with it.
SomeMichGuyM
@dumpstermeow That is a reply unworthy of other than a sociopathic human.

No parent would choose autism, congenital defects, etc., on purpose.
VioletRayne31-35, F
[c=#4C0073]I would take her to the doctor and see if she can be prescribed stronger medicine or find anything that works to calm her. You have to work and provide. You can鈥檛 do that until she鈥檚 regulated a bit better. I鈥檓 sorry you鈥檙e going through this but hopefully you鈥檒l find something that works. [/c]
SomeMichGuyM
WHAT?! WTF?!

I am so sorry...does he have anger issues, etc.?

OK, I read more and see that you have 2 autistic kids...that is sooo very hard. I do not envy you.
Ryannnnnn31-35, M
Dang. Oh well, cheap door so you can get it replaced pretty easy.
Just get the dimensions etc. At least it isn't solid wood.
Jordan452336-40, M
How the fuck does this post get so much attention???Wtf???11 year old and you peeps buy into this shit like your the be all save all!!!!Fuck off!!!
SW-User
@Jordan4523 you need help
Jordan452336-40, M
@SW-User you need help genius!!!
Jordan452336-40, M
And you a borefest!!
RemovedUsername63428041-45, F
Thank you for all the people.that gave good advice. And to the weirdos like Jordan 4523 I hope you can get help soon.
UserNameSW46-50, M
I know an eleven year ld that will be learning how to repair a door 馃
SW-User
How come?
They punched the wall?
RemovedUsername63428041-45, F
@SW-User she basically ripped the door in two.
SW-User
[c=#4C0073]this is one situation i'd advocate spanking lol[/c]
SW-User
There has to be a reason for it .-.
What's on her mind? If you can solve THAT issue, none of this will happen again :v
SW-User
@RemovedUsername634280 then forgive her. It is not her fault and know that if she could do better, she would, but she can't make you proud because she has no ability to. So have patience :)
RemovedUsername63428041-45, F
@SW-User I've done 17 years raising my autistic son and now this. My patience has gone and so has the love
SuperA70-79, F
@RemovedUsername634280 Is your daughter receiving any type of therapy? I have minor relatives who are autistic. Things do get better if you get the help that is needed My nephew could not be controlled as a child, but both parents and he went to therapy. He's now a teen nd doing very well in school.

Austistic children and adults don't know how to pick up on social cues, they have no fear many times, so they get frustrated. Look for a support group in your area or contact an agency who help with that sort of things. Many times you can find assistance through the school's social worker.
gummybearsF
Kids are fun 馃槀
dumpstermeow41-45, F
It's just a door. 馃し馃徏
dumpstermeow41-45, F
@soulsrespite I have vast knowledge in not letting children be born. 馃し馃徏
soulsrespiteF
馃憦馃憦馃憦馃憦馃憦 congratulations. (: @dumpstermeow
dumpstermeow41-45, F
@soulsrespite thank you. 馃槉
RemovedUsername63428041-45, F
@froggtongue i couldnt glue gun that because she eventually ripped it totally of 馃槀馃槀馃槀
DarkSideoftheMoon31-35, F
Wol6251-55, M
That's awful are you going to sue his parents?
Jordan452336-40, M
Yaa that's about right!!鉂わ笍
SW-User
Do we need some straight jackets 馃Д
deadgerbil22-25, F
unacceptable
SW-User
LuciaRose31-35, F
MethDozerM
Tan that hide.
RemovedUsername63428041-45, F
@MethDozer I really wish I could. I've developed a twitch from all the rage I have to keep inside
MethDozerM
@RemovedUsername634280 May be the situation is beyond your ability?
RemovedUsername63428041-45, F
@MethDozer it is totally. I'm not a mental.health expert or a trained therapist. I'm just a mom who had some kids and was raising them just like anyone else. I don't have a clue or the patience anymore for this. It's totally beyond me.

 
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