I Have A Thought To Share

How did you reach those realizations so early in life? I urge you to reevaluate because I have been there in my past. I felt like no one cared, I was worthless, and I was all alone. Heck there are days I still feel that way, but I discovered as I got older that my value wasn't dependent on what some person sees in me. I started doing things to make me feel better about myself, like going to the gym and volunteering in places to help others. It was mundane at first, but eventually seeing smiles on the faces of little kids, and realizing I help put them there,made me feel better. I kept going and eventually I realized my thoughts were wrong and that I would make a difference, not just for others, but myself. I'm sorry you are having these thoughts. Hang in there.

Try to deal with things day by day. Don’t look too far into the future and let the past go. I know it sounds silly and cliche but it does work. Hugs

None of these evaluations can possibly be correct at your age. You have lots of time to turn them all around. Most people your age have not yet succeeded at anything. And your family's view of you is only one view, and not necessarily the defining one. Make your next goal to move away from those who do not appreciate your strengths.

Never is a long time

I remember when I was about your age, I felt the same way, I learned the hard way on how you miss the value in yourself and in life. Perhaps some change in environment, experiences or people might help.

Yes you will by me for a start