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I have come to realize that I will never be loved by another human. I have come to realize how useless I am as a person. I have come to realize that even my family doesn't love me. I have come to realize I am a failure. I have come to realize there is no hope for me. I have come to realize that maybe this is the end...
Fungirlmmm · 51-55, F
How did you reach those realizations so early in life? I urge you to reevaluate because I have been there in my past. I felt like no one cared, I was worthless, and I was all alone. Heck there are days I still feel that way, but I discovered as I got older that my value wasn't dependent on what some person sees in me. I started doing things to make me feel better about myself, like going to the gym and volunteering in places to help others. It was mundane at first, but eventually seeing smiles on the faces of little kids, and realizing I help put them there,made me feel better. I kept going and eventually I realized my thoughts were wrong and that I would make a difference, not just for others, but myself. I'm sorry you are having these thoughts. Hang in there.
Fungirlmmm · 51-55, F
@ShatteredHeart you're welcome. I'm glad friends came in and stepped up for you.
ShatteredHeart · 22-25, T
@Fungirlmmm I'm glad to have nice friends. Would you like to be one of them? :)
Fungirlmmm · 51-55, F
@ShatteredHeart sure. I'm a little older than you but I would enjoy talking with you. I like different perspectives.
FoolishLuna · 56-60, F
Try to deal with things day by day. Don’t look too far into the future and let the past go. I know it sounds silly and cliche but it does work. Hugs
ShatteredHeart · 22-25, T
I could do the online support group..
FoolishLuna · 56-60, F
Just be careful and always follow your gut on who you should trust. @ShatteredHeart
ShatteredHeart · 22-25, T
@FoolishLuna Okay. Thank you
greenmountaingal · 70-79, F
None of these evaluations can possibly be correct at your age. You have lots of time to turn them all around. Most people your age have not yet succeeded at anything. And your family's view of you is only one view, and not necessarily the defining one. Make your next goal to move away from those who do not appreciate your strengths.
JoeyFoxx · 51-55, M
Never is a long time
ShatteredHeart · 22-25, T
@JoeyFoxx I know what I want in life to an extent. I know who I am. I just don't know what path to walk down in the future
JoeyFoxx · 51-55, M
@ShatteredHeart I think that’s my point.

Not knowing which direction to go can be daunting. But you will never learn which direction is the right one without first morning forward.

Learning that you’ve moved in the wrong direction is far better than learning nothing.

If you cannot fly, the run.
If you cannot run, then walk.
If you cannot walk, then crawl.
But by all means necessary, move forward.
ShatteredHeart · 22-25, T
@JoeyFoxx alright thanks
TGJessica · 26-30, T
I remember when I was about your age, I felt the same way, I learned the hard way on how you miss the value in yourself and in life. Perhaps some change in environment, experiences or people might help.
coary987 · M
Yes you will by me for a start
ShatteredHeart · 22-25, T
@coary987 Aw thanks 😄

 
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