I Surprise Myself Sometimes
I don't make friends so easily and so socially akward that I am surprised that I am able to find a boyfriend.
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Tatsumi · 31-35, M
Guys are pretty simple. They generally won't care about anything except attractiveness. So long as they are physically attracted to a female, any other positive attributes are just icing on the cake. At least for awhile.
Women base a man's ability to be social as a check mark on the list of overall desireable traits. It means something. But it doesn't to men. And women have a list that's like 10,000 interchangeable qualities long. But men only have one quality *requirement*.
Women base a man's ability to be social as a check mark on the list of overall desireable traits. It means something. But it doesn't to men. And women have a list that's like 10,000 interchangeable qualities long. But men only have one quality *requirement*.
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Tatsumi · 31-35, M
@Girlwithsilverheart: And you don't understand how hard it is to provide for a family, then often get no respect for doing so, as it's just expected and not appreciated. Then get taken to divorce court and having to give up half of your life, and have them take your kids, even if the mother is a piece of shit. The truth is that women get precedence in society.
700 women die a year in childbirth. 5,000 men die in hard labor jobs per year.
I don't even know what this conversation turned into. It was about shallowness, not who has it worse.
You called all men shallow. So, in your words, "some women are shallow" and "all men are shallow, except some of them are shallow and decent". Well, I think everyone is shallow. It's only women are less obvious about everything.
Besides. Women are manipulators. I'd call that being shallow. And you must know pretty much all women do it on a regular basis.
700 women die a year in childbirth. 5,000 men die in hard labor jobs per year.
I don't even know what this conversation turned into. It was about shallowness, not who has it worse.
You called all men shallow. So, in your words, "some women are shallow" and "all men are shallow, except some of them are shallow and decent". Well, I think everyone is shallow. It's only women are less obvious about everything.
Besides. Women are manipulators. I'd call that being shallow. And you must know pretty much all women do it on a regular basis.
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@ColdPenguin: i didn't said all men are shallow. You sounded as if men are so shallow that they like only women with attractiveness. Both men and women suffers while looking after a family . Maybe from where you come from women have no problem. I'm from India where women are considered to be shit. Even Indian laws are more lenient towards men when it comes to divorce or inheritance. I know it, because because my father illegally holds my mother's money and there is no law to give up the wife's money after a divorce. And yeah, there's this thing called dowry. Then there are families where women are not allowed to go out for work or get educated. Women can't even go out at night fearing of that same men who are supposed to protect them, will attack them. So don't try to belittle women. Women have same value as men too. Remember, it's a woman who carried you and gave birth to you. It's not an easy task. Yes, there are shitty woman. But still you can't ignore good women. I still respect men even though I have been mistreated by my father, male friends and ex boy friends because I know there are good men.
Tatsumi · 31-35, M
@Girlwithsilverheart: oh, well, fair. In the U.S., women are worth more than men and often fuck men over hugely in divorce settlements. Men aren't respected either and husbands are often seen as idiots who cant do anything right no matter how hard they try, but they're actually deserving of respect, as a whole.
India kinda has it fucked all around. Caste system and rape injustice and such. Sure, okay, I think you deserve that much. 😅 I agree completely that women have the same value as men. Just not more.
India kinda has it fucked all around. Caste system and rape injustice and such. Sure, okay, I think you deserve that much. 😅 I agree completely that women have the same value as men. Just not more.
