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I Lie to Myself

as much as I wanna tell myself and people that I am over my ex.... I still have dreams about him all the time of when we were happy and together.. Then I wake up, cry and then move on and lie to myself all over again

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4meAndyou · F

I did the same thing for a long time. The sad truth is, when you have loved someone you will always forget the very bad things, and only remember the happy times. In my case, after two years away from the ex, I missed him and tried to reconcile with him, because I had forgotten that he was physically and mentally abusive and had changed into a crazy screaming angry a-hole.

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4meAndyou · F

@KeKeNae That's right. Never forget the love. It is the best of who you were together. But remember that you are not with him for a good reason, and when you feel too sad, remind yourself of why you broke up.

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KeKeNae · 26-30, F

@4meAndyou it was such a stupid reason we broke up and it angers me

KeKeNae · 26-30, F

break ups are hard, one day ill be ready to move on. but its not today and its ok if its not tomorrow or next month, but one day

SW-User

maybe you need to move on

KeKeNae · 26-30, F

@SW-User I've been trying. I've blocked him on everything and try not to think about him but its hard and then when I have a stupid dream about it just kinda messes me up

4meAndyou · F

@KeKeNae The same thing happens to me. I will have a dream and wake up crying, and then I will feel horrible all day. That's our subconscious trying to deal with our feelings, and cope with them. Sometimes we squelch those feelings down too much, and the dreams are the only way our minds can try to analyze what happened and make peace with it.

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