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Klimo25 My Daughter did her CPR coarse and a demonstration for her graduating class 8 months pregnant ,and he partner was also going through a divorce and 8 months pregnant ,,,,I was never so proud of her in my life
My Daughters stayed close to the families of the Dad ,My kids were taken from me for 12 yrs and addiction played a part in it ,,so I raised my kids to always let the other family be part of their kids lives too
My youngest ,the one that was pregnant ,,,her man was killed when her kids were 3 and 5 ,,my middle Daughter lost her man to kidney and heart failure ..
But my oldest is only 41 ,owns her own home ,the middle one is only 39 owns her own home ,,the youngest have up her how to take care of her mans Dads home after his wife passed away ,,but in August ,,she is buying another one ,she is 38 ,,my Granddaughter is only 20 ,she is buying her first home
All of them used Government programs ,and I covered the rest to be self reliant
I have had 3 heart attacks ,,they became nurses to look after me when needed
and I am disabled ,but still self reliant
It is cool his parents love and help you ,,,you carry their grandchild
But living with an addict is a tough life ,,I was one and my sons Mom was too
We are no longer together ,though I love her very much
She was offered the chance to go to long term rehab ,,or get out
She chose the drugs ,and she only stays straight when she has our son
I will take him from her otherwise ,and she knows I am not playing
From what you say ,,and it is none of my business ,,for now ,you have lost him
You need to care for you and your child ,,Addicts only wake up when they lose something they can't afford to loose ,,,the love of their life ,or their freedom ,,,I lost my kids and still kept using
it took loosing my second wife for me to see ,,I was the problem ,not them