I Think Women Should Be Able to Express Their Sexuality

I would definately NOT wear anything like that to work!!!! I am professional enough and have enough intelligence ,to represent my employer properly. I do, however, hear the comments made about customers (several hundreds a day), from my manager's and coworkers lips. In their views, you're either a "good girl" or "a slut"..no room for inbetween. I'm surprised that you would make the leap from my critisizing their standards to assuming that I would ever compromise my employer like that!! I never said that the disdain was pointed in my direction. I am 50 years old and have lived the large majority of my life in rural Georgia..I don't know the kind of people you're used to , but judgement abounds where I'm from...and people are not hesitant to act one way in front of you , only to turn around and critisize everything about you after you leave. Bigotry, homophobia, and , yes, standards of dress are regularly rampant in private conversation. While a lot of people act like they're accepting, they're only putting on a front....now , I'm not saying that everywhere in the south is like that, but at least in my experience (as a good southern girl,now gone bad for running off to an online lover), you can't always believe what you see and hear. (while I do prefer a dress code that's not ever going to be called conservative, I only dress that way on my own time, and don't go into the store in which I work dressed like that)..Penny Webb