Because of one guy fucked up took your trust away the rest of man kind can not approach you anymore, that's my point,why are the rest of the guys out there getting punish because of him,there might be a guy right now waiting for his chance to be your special friend but you gave your walls all closed up, you are punishing yourself, wake up and smell the air there I'd more out there, get over him and start fresh his fucking loss, or are you waiting for his cheating heart to come back to you, your playing the victim card waiting for more bullshit from him.?