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I Love My Dad

I Wonder If Men Realize The Impact They Have On Their Daughter's Life... I lost my dad when I was 11 but i miss him to this day...I have to laugh when I look back at what he taught me...let me share...
he was very old fashioned..he told me, "young ladies do not chase men" Now i like to physically chase the boys...but to this day I have never asked a man out...I just can't make the first move..it is almost comical to watch and the men enjoy my torture as I struggle to get my intention out..once past point A, I can take over but my dad put the whammy on me taking the lead.

My dad told me what I was going to be when I grew up...i can see him sitting under the dogwood tree, drinking his glass of Black Lable beer with the salt in it..(why salt? never figured that out) anyway, he knew I wassmart but wasn't quite sure what to do with me except I was going to college
..he decided I was going to be an airline stewardess...Ok, Dad..I like to travel I told him..well, punkin, you have to stop growing or you won't be accepted...you see i shot up to my full height by the time I was 10. Ok, Dad...like i could control that too..you didnt' want to argue with this man..he won...then the planes crashed by the tons around Chicago so he called me back again...I am thinking you need to be a nurse. I am NOT convinced...well, dad...I don't like blood very much...no that is a good career for you..then Richard Speck killed the 8 nurses in Chicago...Once more he called me back...that might not be too safe punkin...dad, I want to be a teacher...that is what I want to do..i have known since 3rd grade that is my calling..hmmm..he said ok...finally and he left me alone..
thatis the highest aspiration he had for me..honorable woman career...
and my height..he was really concerned about my height..he was convinced I was going to be a basketball pla<x>yer..he really was concerned and told my mom..see he was a short man and must have suffered the Napoleon complex...well if he could see me now..small, compact and petite..he would be happy.
Missmathematics
Hi That was a really lovely story about your dad he was so caring and obviously loved you to bits, Im sure he would be over the moon to see you now. shame you didnt have longer with him. At least you did what you were told re the men lol.
I love my dad to, you will probably see that in my scapegoat story. My dad does lots for me, he takes me to all hospital appointments , we get on great and share a good sense of humor. My dad never really spoke much about careers he only told me that if I didnt do well at school I would be working in the factory where I lived. I recall thinking at the time it must be awful to work in a factory it was a huge dark building it reminded me of a prison.
My grades in school were average to good, my passion was cooking so I went on to be a chef . He did try to talk me out of that because of the low wages long hours etc but i wouldnt let him . He tried to ask me if i wanted a job in his work in the typing pool. I have to laugh at that as he just assumed all woman could type,however I did not take typing lessons at school. I did get the 4th grade prize for food & nutrition and then went on to college, excelled at college also. However when I was around forty I changed career and did social work. Just now im not working due to ill health. When i get better i will go back to work . My dad is my hero hes 73 and still going strong. hes really kind caring thoughtfull and intellegent. dispite my age he still treats me like his little girl ...aw :)
akindheart · 61-69, F
wish my dad was around...notsure he would treat me like his little girl but he had a strong moral compass too...not sure if he would have approved of the choices I made in life and I am 100% positive he would have sought my ex husband out to seek and destroy...no doubt...women had their place in life and that is where he wanted to stick me..I justdidn't stay put...
akindheart · 61-69, F
My dad has been gone a long time and I am really not sure why he is in my mind constantly lately..i think I have met someone I am going to commit to and I still seek my dad's approval...could that be it? I will hve to write about how he named me...it is funny looking back at this.
Oh i never got to be a teacher...i have my ex to thank for that or life whichever makes sense.
8FOOTDREAD
a girls father is their first experience of the universe as man...the impact is indelibly imprinted for life...I would love to have a daughter - not to say I don't enjoy my son's unfolding emergence...but a daughter - now what an adventure that would be...

thank you for sharing akindheart...small, compact and petite - and fearless
8FD
Missmathematics
lol kindheart my dad said that hes not a violent man but if he could ever shoot anyone it would be my ex. Infact he said it twice once to my ex and once to me

 
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